Confused92 Posted April 7, 2012 Share Posted April 7, 2012 Basically, at the end of February me and my ex broke up. We had been going out for 11 months. She was at Uni in Scotland and I was in central england, so it was obviously the distance which broke us. Over easter time, we have text a bit more, and last tuesday we went out with our friends to the pub. When we where together I used to walk her home, but on tuesday some of our friends where walking that way so I didn't. I hadn't even got home, when I got a text saying, "you looked really good tonight ;)". There was a bit of flirty texts being exchanged, with me saying she "looked ok", as a joke because I didn't know if she was joking. We texted for a bit. The next day she text me, and then after a few exchanges she said, "right im going to do some work, bye". So I left it at that, but an hour later she was texting me again, and did so all night, until the early hours. She mentioned a few times, that It was like nothing had changed, in terms of us texting each other, and that we both really liked it. That night, she said "right im off to bed, night babe!" (btw all texts had 3 kisses on). This confused me, so I replied with "babe? did you mean that?", and she replied with, "force of habit, but what if i did ;)"... its important to know, she hadn't called me babe over text for months. Now we are only at home for another week, before we go back to uni, and she is proper obsessed with revising which is ok. But I want to see her again, if not with friends just alone. Do you think she wants to? Im really confused by this? Link to post Share on other sites
january2011 Posted April 7, 2012 Share Posted April 7, 2012 I suspect that she was just being nice. Seeing you again probably reminded her of what she was missing. But it doesn't mean that she wants to reconnect. If you really wanted to know if she wants to try again, you could always ask her directly. However, I think that there's not enough information to suggest that she wants to. And it's too soon after your breakup so it could be that you're reading more into her behaviour than is actually there. I suggest going NC so that you can clear your head and figure out what's real and what's not. Link to post Share on other sites
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