WordvAction Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Short Summary: There was this girl in class that I was interested in. I used to talk a lot to her in the beginning of the year, and then when I asked her to hang out she said she was "busy", which was her way of rejecting me. I was okay with it, didn't get angry, just slowly decreased contact and started talking to other girls. Since I've moved on, every time she talks to me she's bright-eyes smiling and all of her texts have smileys and winks. Why do women have to wait for you to stop showing interest to become interested? Lol
darkmoon Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 is she testing u? is she just not sure of u? i've seen some very sad stories on this very forum about young broken hearts. or maybe she's still only just about grown-up not wanting too much to happen but will flirt for fun are you in love with her or do u just want a screw
Author WordvAction Posted April 9, 2012 Author Posted April 9, 2012 are you in love with her or do u just want a screw Definitely not in love with the girl, which why it was so easy moving on. And I would be fine H/u with her if that's what she wants, but I actually have my eyes set on someone else now. I just don't understand why SOME girls decide after a guy essentially stops talking to them and moves on that they are going to be flirty/act interested. Or maybe it's just that; some girls just like attention
sid3 Posted April 9, 2012 Posted April 9, 2012 Or maybe it's just that; some girls just like attention Yep. Some like it, others absolutely need it. Fortunately its your choice which ones you give it to.
BetheButterfly Posted April 10, 2012 Posted April 10, 2012 Definitely not in love with the girl, which why it was so easy moving on. And I would be fine H/u with her if that's what she wants, but I actually have my eyes set on someone else now. I just don't understand why SOME girls decide after a guy essentially stops talking to them and moves on that they are going to be flirty/act interested. Or maybe it's just that; some girls just like attention I think she basically does like attention, and just like you have another interest right now, maybe she had interest in another guy when you were giving her more attention? Maybe she lost interest in him? Who knows? Women are mysterious! Either way, I like that you don't let it bother you.
Charulata Posted April 11, 2012 Posted April 11, 2012 Yes, if she's showing interest now it doesn't sound genuine since she already rejected you. She's playing games for attention! Ugh. That's my snap judgment anyway.
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