Does he really want to marry me or am I easy?

[Jody005]

My boyfriend of 7 years met someone else when we split up and i decided i wanted him back plus they needed somewhere to live and he was depressed so I asked him to ring her and tell her he wanted nothing to do with her and he still now living with me. He went back to her once when we had a fight and i kicked him out but she has no stable accommodation he has no where else and but ive said if they contact each other again i will leave him. He said if i leave him he will kill himself and he's proposed. She rang him to see if he was ok i answered and I have told her if i leave him he'll kill himself and ill leave if she calls again. Do you think theyll contact each other again ive changed his number? He never ever loved her.

[Mme. Chaucer]

Hm. Well, there is nothing in your post that indicates that he wants to marry you, or wants to be with you or likes you. He might. But it sounds like you'd be better off without a man you need to control this way in order to keep him living under your roof.

[Philosoraptor]

I'd agree that this sounds a bit more of a control based relationship than a romantic based one. I'd cut ties and find someone I could trust.

[KathyM]

This is not a healthy relationship between you and him. Set him free, and don't allow him to manipulate you with threats. Time to let him go and for you to move on to something healthier. This guy has serious issues which are not going to go away by you taking him back.

[Lauriebell82]

It's not your responsibility to "save him." Do not allow him to manipulate you into staying with him. I definatley think you have been making it way too easy for him to screw around with you.

 

Now, I understand taking him back after the suicide comment, by why the other times? He clearly does not care about your feelings if you he keeps contacting another girl. YOU should be the only one he cares about and wants to be with.