BabyB Posted June 17, 2004 Share Posted June 17, 2004 I'm not a clubing person but two days ago I got chance to go to a night club with other ladies and it was a genuine outing which I dont really regret, I have a boy friend, we live in different locations and I'm much in love with him but it was a coinsident that we meet each other, unknowingly that he would be there and also me. He told me that his friend fetched him to go out and I told him the same thing that I was invited to go out but his body language said alot because he didnt expected to be there, it was a shock for both of us. He told me that I can go and enjoy myself and I found it very strange that he was pushing me away, but anyway I went to dance with my friends but I was never comfortable again coz I was checking him out the whole night, I saw him with his friend busy on the cellphone with a girl, I think he was taking her cell number, the whole night he was not even dancing but had a mission. He never told me that he is leaving but I saw him leaving with his friend and I was so hurt. The next day in the morning I send him a message around 9 in the morning if I can see him today, he never replyed, and I gave him chance coz I thought he would call me but he never, around 4 in the afternoon I called him on his cellphone he was not anwering, it went on voicemail and I left a message to say I was checking on you and I hope you are okay and call me back. He never replyed me. At night around 9 I send him a message he didnt reply me. Was it wrong for me to go out or do you thind he doesnt want me anymore. We have been dating for 7 months and I love him so much. I cant think propare and I cant eat because its disturbing me so. I'm waiting for a call from him. Please help me. Link to post Share on other sites
Debster Posted June 17, 2004 Share Posted June 17, 2004 No, you were not wrong to go out. Stop waiting by the phone. Spend time with friends. Enjoy life. Stop calling this guy. If he wanted to return your call, he would have already. Listen to your gut. You yourself said he was on a mission, his body language seemed off, he didn't spend time with you or even say goodbye and you suspect he got some women's phone number. How much more information do you need? Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted June 17, 2004 Share Posted June 17, 2004 Men don't think like women. If a woman said "I'll call you tomorrow" and didn't, it would be a MAJOR THING. Very rude. Men, don't think like that. Please don't turn into crazy girl that won't stop calling that he laughs to his buddies about. You've called twice that's it. No more. Link to post Share on other sites
morrigan Posted June 17, 2004 Share Posted June 17, 2004 You can go out and have fun with friends anytime you want. Your (ex) boyfriend can go out and have fun anytime he wants as well. His actions on that night suggest he was on the prowl for other women and not happy to see you there--not the way you'd expect a boyfriend to act. It's probably a good idea just to walk away from this relationship. If he hasn't called back, there is not a lot you can do about it but figure the relationship is over. Don't contact him again. Get on with your life, it's not worth making yourself miserable over this guy. Eventually the hurt you feel will go away. Go out and have fun with your friends! Link to post Share on other sites
supermom Posted June 17, 2004 Share Posted June 17, 2004 What and a**h***! first off, the way he treated you was soooo low that I wouldn't even want to be friends with him let alone continue to be his gf. He was obviously looking for some other tail that night. He disrespected you in front of his friend, doesn't call you back, FORGET HIM! He doesn't DESERVE your presence or your thoughts. Sorry you had to be treated that way. Men can be such pigs! Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
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