Leihua Posted June 17, 2004 Share Posted June 17, 2004 My boyfriend and I promised each other we would throw away all old pictures of our ex's before getting married. Well, that time has come, and I threw all of mine out and he promised he did as well, a symbol of our commitment. The other day I was in the garage though, and I discovered an entire box of pictures of his ex. More pictures of her than he has of me. It wouldn't bother me so much, except for the fact he broke his promise. He also lied about it. If he had so much as forgotten, or didn't want to throw them out, I don't think I would be upset, but the week before he told me he had gone through the very same box and dumped them. I'm not sure how to handle the situation. I'm really mad about the principle of the matter...the broken promise and lies, not the pictures. I want to confront him, but I'm worried he'll accuse me of snooping. Any suggestions? Link to post Share on other sites
BlueLP Posted June 17, 2004 Share Posted June 17, 2004 It'll probably bother you until you talk, so yes, you should confront him. And he did lie to you....you're making the right distinction, if he had communicated to you that he'd rather keep them that would be one thing, but he promised you to get rid of them. Maybe you felt more strongly about getting rid of pictures than he did, and he just went along with what you were saying? Who knows. But talk to him, you'll find out why and then feel better. Link to post Share on other sites
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