kayla189 Posted June 18, 2004 Share Posted June 18, 2004 Ok Heres my story.....My best friend liked this kid named eric and he was like in love with her but she was in luv with another guy Matt, so I guess he waited and gave up hope on waiting any longer, so him and I started to talk on aol. He told me he liked me and everything, but the problem was he has a gf. He told me he was gonna pick me up so he did. To make a long story straight he made out with me while he had a gf. Everyone is tellin me he is a player and I believe it, i dunno but I feel I need him, when I definantly dont need him cuz we just started talkin, maybe its the fact of he seems like a sweet guy and I want him in my life I def not need him though! Well he is in Cancun for a week, he asked me out the day before he was goin 2 Cancun and I told him id give him my answer when he came back, because I mean hes gonna be in Cancun doing who the heck knows what, I wouldnt be able to put up with the pressure of wondering what he was doing. Hes been gone for like 3 days now, and I have been doing so much thinking.....and I came to the conclusion of he is a playa and I shouldnt get involved! Well Im thinking Id be better off to just ignore him, when he trys to get in touch with me when he gets back. Its something I really dont wanna do but maybe I should. I mean he cheated on his gf who knows what he'd do to me, and Id def wouldnt be able to put up with it! I like him so much though, like when we was kissing I really felt a connection! Should I just talk to him? Plz help! Link to post Share on other sites
Miss_Behavin143 Posted June 18, 2004 Share Posted June 18, 2004 Yes, you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. Not talking to him period and ignoring him is not the way to answer the problem. However, the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater", is usually true. NOT always, but usually. HOWEVER, you sound pretty young, and if this guy is young also, it could just be immaturity..... and maybe he will grow out of it. Now, if he's over 20... or 21, I'd say.. no... he's probably going to do it to you if he'd do it to his girlfriend. Just my opinion though Link to post Share on other sites
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