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I am a 22yr old female who is transgender ( I have never felt/acted/behavied/dressed like a woman/girl) and only attracted to guys. I don't drink, smoke or party. I also want to be celibate till marriage. I love history (only TV I seem to watch is documentaries (nature, history, science)), and anything to do with animals. I breed goats ( have a herd of 11 right now, along with a miniature horse who guards them. I can lift 50+lb bags of feed and move over 500lbs of feed. I am rough and tough, yet an introvert. Dirt, blood, etc. do not bother me. I am planning on trying to get into the police academy.

 

I have a severe learning disability caused by traumatic brain damaged I obtained at birth. I have a condition called Dyscalculia that affects math ( counting money, telling time on an analogue clock, some forms of measuring, addition/subtraction/multiplication/ division, all on a third grade level.) I do have a formal diagnosis, they did an IQ/skills test and I got a 122 speech comprehension, I know I'm not dumb. I also have a physical condition called Ehler's Danlos Syndrome type 3 (lack of collegian in joints, also effects central nervous and GI), my joints are super loose, causing me pain at times.

 

My question is, with all that going on, how the heck do I find someone compatible with me. I do have male friends, and that is all they are. I have tried wearing womens clothing, but I am too uncomfortable and can't relax. I would have a better chance if I went to collage, but my math scores are always too low. Disability agencies can't even get me in. I live in a rural area and don't drive yet ( I know how, just don't have a liscense yet) because of visual spatial/depth perception issues. Is there any hope?

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Yes, there is hope. I don't have any advice of the top of my head at the moment. What part of history interests you the most?

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Yes, there is hope. I don't have any advice of the top of my head at the moment. What part of history interests you the most?

Anything pre1950s. I also wish I could find someone, male or female, who was into history.:( I once knew a girl who thought the Wright brothers made popcorn.:eek:

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I would think there's probably a lot of non credit courses you could take. That sucks about not being able to enroll because of math. I've never needed calculus or algebra since leaving school.

 

I had a couple goats a few years ago. They'd always run over to my neighbors pasture and hang out with their bulls. I hated having to climb over the split rail to go in and fetch them.

It's a toss up as to whether the males smelled worse than the pigs I raised. Pretty sure they did. Never had a minature horse or pony, there's two rescue horses on my dad's now. They'd probably like the company of a goat.

 

Police academy sounds like a place to meet like minded people, how is it they'll let you carry a gun and be a cop but you cant attend college. Seems odd.

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I would think there's probably a lot of non credit courses you could take. That sucks about not being able to enroll because of math. I've never needed calculus or algebra since leaving school.

 

I had a couple goats a few years ago. They'd always run over to my neighbors pasture and hang out with their bulls. I hated having to climb over the split rail to go in and fetch them.

It's a toss up as to whether the males smelled worse than the pigs I raised. Pretty sure they did. Never had a minature horse or pony, there's two rescue horses on my dad's now. They'd probably like the company of a goat.

 

Police academy sounds like a place to meet like minded people, how is it they'll let you carry a gun and be a cop but you cant attend college. Seems odd.

 

You don't need to be Einstein to carry/use a gun properly.;) I am at college level or beyond in everything but math. I have good reflexes, can read people and have a good memory for facts (laws/regulations/penal codes).

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You don't need to be Einstein to carry/use a gun properly.;) I am at college level or beyond in everything but math. I have good reflexes, can read people and have a good memory for facts (laws/regulations/penal codes).

 

Einstein no, bachelor's degree is a major plus, altough maybe you won't need it where you live. Here, without one there is little to no chance.

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