Good2Go Posted June 19, 2004 Share Posted June 19, 2004 Most men enjoy porn. Only a retard would enjoy it more than the real thing. If your man is turning you down for sex to watch someone else do it, he's just messed up! Link to post Share on other sites
StartingAgain Posted June 19, 2004 Share Posted June 19, 2004 Oh no! I know nw women who will admit thye masturbate. It's a forbidden subject. If you younger gals will, good! it means that you aren't as hung up as those who came before you. My ex masturbated, but denied it. Over 20% of women don't masturbate. For guys, there are two types: those who take matters into their own hands and those who lie about it. Even married/coupled men who have good sex lives will masturbate. I agree with others, coolbeans, that a confrontation is in order. But not a hostile one; that will get you nowhere fast. He'll just shut down. You have to patient, loving and reassuring, nad make it clear that it isn't the porn so much that bothers you, but the way he uses it. If he doesn't feel threatened, he may open up and talk to you about the things he needs to talk about. BTW, I wrote earlier about obsessional thinking. The other side of this is that we all get to feeling a little kinky from time to time and sometimes get carried away. And porn is a a powerful draw. What bothers me about porn is that a lot of guys actually think that the sex depicted in the films is how it's supposed to be. They don't understand that it's pure fantasy and want it in their real sex lives. I doubt most women would have the "reaction" that the gals in the films have, should their husbands treat them similarly in bed. Some men, like myself, don't care for porn at all (except to view occasionally with a willing partner). I find it pretty boring. Even though I'm single again, I still don't care for it, since all it does is gets me frustrated (all dressed up and nowhere to go!). Some of it is downright disgusting. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts