simplybrill Posted June 18, 2004 Share Posted June 18, 2004 Would you be mad if you found out an old roomate fooled around with a guy that you told her you liked? So basically- she knew how you felt about the guy and she made a point to go after him anyways...and later on talk to your face about things like "hey so did you ever go out with R " She even tried to tell me that she "talked to him" for me, like trying to hook us up. It should be said that me and the guy were together for a lil bit, and I still have feelings for him. It just gets under my skin that she KNEW I liked him, and she went after him! Do I have a right to be mad at either of them? Im just confused on this... Link to post Share on other sites
cherished Posted June 18, 2004 Share Posted June 18, 2004 I don't think that it's a matter of having the "right" to be mad! I would be pissed to! She lyed to your face while going behind your back trying to steal him from out from under you, you should have approached him on your own! I would never have anything to do with that person *the female* because what's gonna keep her from sleeping (or trying to) sleep with any future man you like or date just because she is attracted to him??? Sounds like a snake to me! Link to post Share on other sites
pocoestrella Posted June 18, 2004 Share Posted June 18, 2004 [font=times new roman][/font] In my opinion, yes you have the right to be mad. This is suppose to be not just your room mate she is also suppose to be your friend... you confided in her and trusted her... As far as i'm concerned she knew what she did wasn't right otherwise she would have been straight up with you regarding her hooking up with this guy... Link to post Share on other sites
Bubbles Posted June 18, 2004 Share Posted June 18, 2004 I would be FURIOUS! There is a rule between friends - You don't go after the boy that your friend likes, you don't go after the boy that your friend just broke up with, you don't go after the boy that your friend is dating! Three simple rules. If you can't follow them - then you will meet my wrath. My friends can expect me to honour these rules, I make it very clear with "new" friends also. Tell your so called friend to go "pound salt" Toxic Friend!!! anyways......who needs her? Bubbles Link to post Share on other sites
Author simplybrill Posted June 18, 2004 Author Share Posted June 18, 2004 THANKYOU!!! I knew I wasnt crazy!! I have to run into this horrible excuse for a human once in a while at work, because we work in related departments...goodness...everytime I see her I want to ask her : HEY so how long DID you wait after I moved out, to move in on R??? I just wanna scream at her!!! But I know ignoring her will probably do a better job! People who love attention cant stand it when you ignore them right? She definitely was being shady about the whole business, she even had the NERVE to ask me when I ran into her the other day HOW I WAS DOIN...Im just thinking, how do you think im doing you conniving POS! Link to post Share on other sites
Bubbles Posted June 18, 2004 Share Posted June 18, 2004 By the way...... I wouldn't have anything more to do with this fellow "R" either. If he knew that you two were friends and he messed around with her - that clearly tells me that he has no respect for you or your friends and would not think twice about doing that to you again if you two were to have a relationship. Dump both their A$$'s and move on. Bubbles I would certaily let all of my friends know what this girl did. That is not a friend at all. You have nothing to be ashamed of if she confronts you - you are simply telling the truth! Link to post Share on other sites
Author simplybrill Posted June 18, 2004 Author Share Posted June 18, 2004 Thank goodness, im not involved with the 'R' guy anymore- besides he's in a whole different country now, and isnt returning. But if he was coming back, I still wouldnt be with him! I did ask him about all of this, and he said that he didnt know we were friends when he fooled around with her. I am mad at him about this as well, dont get me wrong, I know it takes two to tango. Ugh...I dont even want to think about them tango-ing. I wish I had never met either of them :*( I hate girls like that, and Im so sick of guys and their drama.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author simplybrill Posted June 21, 2004 Author Share Posted June 21, 2004 moving on...thanks for the advice! Link to post Share on other sites
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