Toxhicide Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 I am in high school, by the way. I am trying to get acquainted with a girl in my class in hopes of being able to get her number and eventually hang out with her. I started yesterday in attempting to talk to her, and we did for probably a minute or more total about. Today we also did, but far less. I am just trying to familiarize myself with her. Girls, if a guy where talking to you, what things might a guy try to do that would actually get you interested in talking to him, etc? I know its early, but I only have 28 days left of school (22 to see her because of some scheduling stuff with exams). I've heard being funny helps, but its not what to talk about (except that I really don't know anything funny to say that would fit the situation), but the subject of what to and the opportunity to as well. Any help is appreciated, thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
BurningDream Posted April 18, 2012 Share Posted April 18, 2012 First thing, before you talk and even when you talk....be very intuned to her reactions to you. Don't consciously think about them, but just be observant and you'll instinctively react to her. If she is into you, take it from there...be serious and if something funny comes along, say it. If you think of something to say to her while you aren't around her, write it down and remember it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Toxhicide Posted April 21, 2012 Author Share Posted April 21, 2012 The past few days I have just been asking general questions, Monday I talked to her for a minute about some accident she had, and Thursday all I did was say hello to her. Today I actually got my confidence up and broke the barrier of talking, and I did before and after class. I also talked to her at the end of the day (we have some 20 minute thing) before and after it as well. All I remember about the last time we talked, which was about 25 minutes ago, was that it was going alright and everything, but she wasn't facing towards me. As we left the class she said "bye", but at the time I strongly felt it was for another person (that I can say is her in school acquaintance) that she talked to also before, but not after or around the time I did. I am reading too much into this I know. I am not bad looking, I can talk to a person well, I have shown that I am confident by striking up conversations... I think it is too early to tell, but I would like advice nonetheless. What would a guy be able to do, girls, to be able to spark an interest? I hope you understand what I mean by that. Link to post Share on other sites
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