Dancing sexually or pretending to have sex with his worker in a photo?

[aconfused]

Is that counted as cheating?

 

I found out that there was a picture taken where the female worker my man is in charge of is pretending to give him a blowjob. I will attach the picture because I have gotten permission and it is on a public photo site.

 

 

He never mentioned it either. If I didn't see the picture, it wouldn't have become an issue. I thought he was just dancing until people actually told me what it meant. I am traditional so I am having second thoughts about whether he actually likes my type.

 

I don't know what to think. Can the males in loveshack tell me whether it is harmless or not? I am not sure what to do about it because I can't tell if I am being a insecure loser or if it really is wrong for him to do that.

[dasein]

I don't think it's cheating per se, but disrespectful of your relationship. If my GF were frequently going to such parties, and didn't take me along, it could be a dealkiller.

[g450]

Harmless? Are you kidding me? No way in hell is that harmless.

At the very least it shows total disrespect to you. And I would say that this photo is a big red flag waving right in front of your face. How could it be anything less than that?

 

Time for you to move on to somebody that actually respects you.

[in_absentia]

It looks to me like it could be easily that she dropped something and was bending down :\ sure it could be construed the other way too, and if that's the case then yes, I would personally consider that cheating and fully off limits, but has he admitted that's what it was?

[veggirl]

Her hand is on his leg, his looks like he was pushing her head down. Your bf lacks boundaries big time, I'd be embarrassed.