SocialButterfly Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 (edited) Well he tells me it's his female friend Sandy but why does he acts sort of weird when she calls or texts him? It got to the point he locked himself in his room or close his yahoo im box quickly. Then I found several text messages which he calls her babe, sexy, etc. I confronted him about this but he got all defensive and said ''It's just my friend, nothing but harmless texting'' Is this his way of getting back at me? Because he still does throw it in my face from time to time (not much as before but still does it). I made a mistake but is he now cheating or planning to? Now I'm getting jealous. Edited April 20, 2012 by SocialButterfly Link to post Share on other sites
AlanaIrvine Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 what do you mean by ' is it his way of getting back at me?' what did you do? Link to post Share on other sites
Author SocialButterfly Posted April 20, 2012 Author Share Posted April 20, 2012 what do you mean by ' is it his way of getting back at me?' what did you do?Cheated once way in July 2010 (almost everything except sex) and have regretted since. Link to post Share on other sites
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 Well he tells me it's his female friend Sandy but why does he acts sort of weird when she calls or texts him? It got to the point he locked himself in his room or close his yahoo im box quickly. Then I found several text messages which he calls her babe, sexy, etc. I confronted him about this but he got all defensive and said ''It's just my friend, nothing but harmless texting'' Is this his way of getting back at me? Because he still does throw it in my face from time to time (not much as before but still does it). I made a mistake but is he now cheating or planning to? Now I'm getting jealous. I don't think he is getting back at you, but he is very clearly interested in this "friend". I don't call my male friends "babe" or "sexy". And none of them call me those things. Love how he quickly closes the screen, too. They are IM'ing, chatting and in full blown communication. Time to have a talk with him and lay it all on the line. Neither of you will completely trust each other...Do you think you could? Link to post Share on other sites
Author SocialButterfly Posted April 20, 2012 Author Share Posted April 20, 2012 Love how he quickly closes the screen, too.Yes it's like he doesn't want me to see what they're writing. Even if I were to accidentally walked in, he gets upset. Link to post Share on other sites
BewitchedandBothered Posted April 20, 2012 Share Posted April 20, 2012 Yes it's like he doesn't want me to see what they're writing. Even if I were to accidentally walked in, he gets upset. Have a talk with him about this; a serious talk. If he blows you off, therein lies your answer. He is sneaking around and you don't need that. Link to post Share on other sites
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Author SocialButterfly Posted April 23, 2012 Author Share Posted April 23, 2012 Have a talk with him about this; a serious talk. If he blows you off, therein lies your answer. He is sneaking around and you don't need that.Yeah he got angry again and he went outside to answer a call from his cell phone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SocialButterfly Posted April 23, 2012 Author Share Posted April 23, 2012 This has really helped me. Check this out and let us know what you think. Secret Survey - The Truth You've Never Been Told About Men WANT TO KNOWToo much talking on that video. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SocialButterfly Posted April 23, 2012 Author Share Posted April 23, 2012 he's a cheatYeah but I can't really blame him. Link to post Share on other sites
rickys Posted April 23, 2012 Share Posted April 23, 2012 Red flags........ No one calls his friend babe or sexy.... collect some evidence and show them to him.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author SocialButterfly Posted April 23, 2012 Author Share Posted April 23, 2012 No one calls his friend babe or sexy....That's what I was thinking too. Why the sudden attention to Sandy and not his other friends? Is this his way of telling me he doesn't work it out anymore? Link to post Share on other sites
freestyle Posted April 23, 2012 Share Posted April 23, 2012 Those with nothing to hide--- Hide nothing.......... Your bf's behaviors are major red flags. Link to post Share on other sites
Ellamay Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 Hes definitely planning on cheating if he hasnt already. Hes blatantly disrespecting you. Link to post Share on other sites
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