Riya257 Posted April 21, 2012 Share Posted April 21, 2012 Hi, Hope I'm posting on the right forum. I'm in the process of trying to get over a break-up. The guy I like, lives in another country. I met him while I was on vacation. I went back to visit him for 2 weeks. Within those two weeks, he avoided me the entire time. When I got back to the US he told me that "he cannot love someone, that's why he told me he liked me". I was about to delete him from my FB page when he told me that he wanted to remain friends, yet he has not made any attempt to say "hi" or anything in that manner. My problem is I am planning to move abroad (the country where he lives) next year to be a teacher. Do I tell him of my plans? Right now I feel completely humiliated and insulted by the way he treated me, and I don't want him to think that I am moving there because of him. Advise, please... Link to post Share on other sites
NateC Posted April 21, 2012 Share Posted April 21, 2012 Hi, Hope I'm posting on the right forum. I'm in the process of trying to get over a break-up. The guy I like, lives in another country. I met him while I was on vacation. I went back to visit him for 2 weeks. Within those two weeks, he avoided me the entire time. When I got back to the US he told me that "he cannot love someone, that's why he told me he liked me". I was about to delete him from my FB page when he told me that he wanted to remain friends, yet he has not made any attempt to say "hi" or anything in that manner. My problem is I am planning to move abroad (the country where he lives) next year to be a teacher. Do I tell him of my plans? Right now I feel completely humiliated and insulted by the way he treated me, and I don't want him to think that I am moving there because of him. Advise, please... Move forward and don't look back. He doesn't deserve your holding back your own life when it's clear he doesn't want to make the effort. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Riya257 Posted April 22, 2012 Author Share Posted April 22, 2012 Thank you very much for your time and advise. And you're right, I should just move on with my life. Link to post Share on other sites
Ellamay Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 Why would you want to be "friends" with someone who ignores you for 2 weeks when youve travelled to another country to visit them? That completely baffles me? Secondly, why do you think you have a responsibility to tell him anything? He clearly does not care about you very much. Link to post Share on other sites
LDR Nation Posted April 26, 2012 Share Posted April 26, 2012 Please try to understand that he isn't worth your time. Right now, you can go anywhere and do anything you want in life, but going after him will only slow you down. I understand that you have feelings for him, but realize that as soon as you get over this guy, the door will open up for a real man to come into your life. One who will love you and be there for you, unlike this one. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Riya257 Posted April 28, 2012 Author Share Posted April 28, 2012 @LDR Nation: Much appreciated. I'm in the process of dealing and accepting that I need to move on. I'm keeping myself busy by going back to college, working and planning my new life path. I'm just going to shut for for a while. Thank you very much. @Ellamay: I have never been in a relationship (I'm 29 year old). This is the first guy I fell in love with. I deleted him once from FB and could not deal with it, so I add him back. I know if I delete him again I will add him again. I guess part of me want him to delete me that way I won't have the face to re-add him again. For the time being, I'm just blocking him. I'm happy because I have not tried to contact or chat with him and it's helping me. Thank you very much for your time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Riya257 Posted April 28, 2012 Author Share Posted April 28, 2012 @Ellamay: I have never been in a relationship (I'm 29 year old). This is the first guy I fell in love with. I deleted him once from FB and could not deal with it, so I add him back. I know if I delete him again I will add him again. I guess part of me want him to delete me that way I won't have the face to re-add him again. For the time being, I'm just blocking him. I'm happy because I have not tried to contact or chat with him and it's helping me. Thank you very much for your time. Link to post Share on other sites
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