Should I run? Oh geez....

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It doesn't matter if she has another woman. She wants what she can't have and it gets her wet. You do not get her wet. Just save yourself some heartbreak and move on from her. What exactly is so great about her that she is worth torturing yourself over?

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You did the right thing for yourself. Now stick to your guns. Im sure she will try to contact you again and again. Just go NC and leave her alone. She made her decision way before you did. You just did not know it at the time.

 

I know it hurts but you can do it. Your still young.

[wmrjw82]

I finally wiped my hands clean of this mess today. We had been talking back and forth the last few days but I could tell she wasn't really into me. I think she's just lonely. I wont be used for an eventual and inevitable kick to the curb when she finds that guy (who will most likely be a piece of ****) that she is really into.

 

I made it clear to her today. Please do not contact me again. I deleted her on fb as well as all pics. We only dated and talked for 1-2 months so it probably shouldn't be long till i'm totally over her but it does hurt right now. I wanted to give her this one last chance this week but the more I talked the more I realized she is totally clueless in life right now. Telling me things like "I find myself looking at others, I dont think you make me whole...does that make you want to run away?"... I mean it was almost like some sick manipulation on her part to get me to say "no honey... that's okay I know you're lost right now but i'll be there for you." NEWSFLASH: the more I thought about it the more I realized how much I was damaging myself. I dont need to put up this with this ****. How DARE she say something like that to me. She was rude to me3 on the phone last night and then today when I txt her I missed her and was thinking about her I couldn't even get a reply for like 4 hrs where she finally told me, "i feel like ****, not talking to anyone so ya..."... My last message was to her was: "Please do not contact me again. I wont be used because you're lonely. I'm in it for the real deal obviously you dont feel the same way about me. It's okay:)".....AND DONE.

 

If and when she does contact me there will be NO ****ING RESPONSE. This was her second and only chance and I strongly suggest if anyone that happens to read this thread and goes thru something similar care more about yourself and you will do better in the long run. It may hurt temporarily...but this will pass as it always does. NEVER DIMINISH YOURSELF!

 

Thanks for all the advice and i'm just sorry I didn't listen to it earlier. I guess I believe everyone deserved second chances. This one got hers and blew it.