Author beenburned Posted May 3, 2012 Author Share Posted May 3, 2012 LG, Your post is a winner! Is a WS trustworthy? I think not. Link to post Share on other sites
Author beenburned Posted May 3, 2012 Author Share Posted May 3, 2012 PIH, I find it very sad that the majority of people in your town are having affairs. If that many people are unhappy in their marriages, why don't they just divorce instead of running around having affairs? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Spark1111 Posted May 3, 2012 Share Posted May 3, 2012 Stats......don't reflect much of anything about affairs accurately imo. A lot of people aren't going to admit to an affair, irregardless if it's an anonymous survey or not. Even those that do leave their marriage for an AP aren't likely to admit it either if they didn't get found out. What I see posted here and other places are that the majority of posts are of pain, irregardless of what side of the fence one is on. That can not be denied. D day....is pain, more often than not for all parties. D day should be the time when the mp gets clearer about what he/she really wants. Does he/she want the marriage or do they want out or do they want to be cowardly and take it further underground. I believe anyone can have a temporary lapse of character and integrity but d days ought to provide the chance to get that back by living honestly and authentically by either starting the divorce process or choosing the marriage. Be my guest....was my response. If that is your soulmate, go be with her. You didn't have to lie to me; you did not have to feed her bs about finances, the last child going to college, blah, blah, blah. You NEVER had to lie to me, no matter what you told yourself or her. I would have let you go, had you just been honest with me. I loved you enough to do so. I would have been sad, but ultimately, I would have been fine. You? You were never as strong as me. You even admitted this; even the kids said so. You never had to pretend you weren't in contact with her. I knew it. So, so sad to me that you had to sneak around like a rebellious teenager with your OW fully invested in that I was the evil stepmother preventing all your future happiness. You really did not have to, and neither did she. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Stephanie Posted May 3, 2012 Share Posted May 3, 2012 (edited) Thread closed for moderator review. Upon review, this thread will remain closed. A warning to stay on topic was issued by William about midway through the thread. This didn't happen. Please be aware that independent discussions within a thread are a violation (off topic). If anyone wants to discuss something that comes to mind based on posts within a thread, please start another thread to discuss. Thanks Edited May 3, 2012 by Stephanie Link to post Share on other sites
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