tameee Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 My boyfriend tries to hide the fact that he calls and texts a certain girl. I saw a missed call from an unknown number on his phone (I knew it was her) when I asked him he got defensive and walked away. Also, when they chat online he says things like "remember that question I asked you? call me tonight and give me your answer" He told me he got defensive about me seeing the missed call because he knew "I would get upset if I knew he was talking to her." I think this sounds suspicious but I have no idea what else to do since I already confronted him. Advice? Link to post Share on other sites
g450 Posted April 25, 2012 Share Posted April 25, 2012 He is talking to another girl... Red Flag He hid this from you... Red Flag #2 He knew you would get upset, and rightly so... Red Flag #3 It's starting to look like a soviet parade ground in your thread. So what are all these red flags telling you? My advice: Run! Link to post Share on other sites
CC12 Posted April 25, 2012 Share Posted April 25, 2012 He told me he got defensive about me seeing the missed call because he knew "I would get upset if I knew he was talking to her." Well, you did get upset. Is there a reason you don't like him speaking to this person? He's allowed to have friends, right? Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted April 25, 2012 Share Posted April 25, 2012 He who has nothing to hide, hides nothing. If he is hiding things, then he obviously has something to hide. Link to post Share on other sites
g450 Posted April 26, 2012 Share Posted April 26, 2012 Well, you did get upset. Is there a reason you don't like him speaking to this person? He's allowed to have friends, right? Of course she got upset. He gave her more than enough reason to be. Read her original posting again. Yes he can have friends. So can she. But lets put the shoe on the other foot. What if she was talking to another guy in secret and hiding it from HIM? He simply has no respect for his GF or her feelings. And regardless if she has an insecurity issue or not her suspicions are justified. I would either do two things. Investigate further or end the relationship based on what she knows so far. Link to post Share on other sites
CC12 Posted April 26, 2012 Share Posted April 26, 2012 Read her original posting again. I don't need to, thanks. Yes he can have friends. So can she. To clarify, I was asking OP those questions. Link to post Share on other sites
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