Wretched Posted June 20, 2004 Share Posted June 20, 2004 Please help. I have been in love and dating a guy for about 6 months. I found out 2 weeks ago he was cheating on me so I called it off, although the wound is still fresh and I was trying to believe all of his excuses, apologies, and promises for our future together... Well I was out shopping this morning and saw him with this girl. She is stunning - really beautiful. They looked so lovey-dovey together; he was even holding her hand which he always said he hated doing in public with me. He turned around and saw me, but I quickly turned and walked away. He hasn't bothered calling me since. I have final exams this week at university and don't know if I can cope - I can't stop crying and I can't get this image of them together out of my head. I feel like I am about to have a breakdown; I feel so stupid and rejected. Can anyone help?? PLEASE! Link to post Share on other sites
pretty_petal Posted June 20, 2004 Share Posted June 20, 2004 You shouldn't feel stupid or rejected... after all its him that has been stupid and then rejected. The fact that you have exams is a good thing, although theres alot of pressure, it will get your mind off him. You don't need him, he is scum. I can't believe he cheated. I pitty that poor girl hes with, he'll probably just do the same to her. believe it or not, there are plenty more men out there that would suit you just fine. Good luck in getting over him! Link to post Share on other sites
dreamguy Posted June 20, 2004 Share Posted June 20, 2004 Wretched, you're certainly not stupid ! Otherwise there would be millions of stupid persons on this planet for being cheated on and dumped ! It's Love sweety, there's always a risk of getting rejected when you open up your heart to someone. If they are not worth it and they are scum as pretty_petal said then it's their loss. Not yours ! I agree with her, you should pity the girl he's with because he'll probably do the same to her and one day, very soon, she'll be standing in your shoes wondering what hit her ! Whenever you think about him, tell yourself that you'll have all the time in the world to do that later (when you're done with your exams). Go study and don't wreck your life over an a**hole ! "I can't get this image of them together out of my head". Do me a favor, whenever you have this image of them together just toss it away and replace it with an image of her crying after being dumped by the same guy who let you go. It'll put a smile on your face ! Link to post Share on other sites
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