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What do you have to offer to the opposite sex?

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Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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Still waiting for you to answr your own question JoystickD..especially since your the one that berated the board for "wanting this or that" and not thinking about what they have to offer a partner..So out with it..What does JoystickD offer to a partner?

El Brujo Established Member

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It isn't what you have to offer, it's all about the "chemistry" :sick:

 

Remember what our mothers told us... chemistry is the art of making explosions. This is its only purpose.

Negative Nancy Established Member

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sarcasm (extreme negativity and judgementalness)

 

endless deep and moving conversations (i make a great conversation partner because i like to bitch, moan and whine alot. if i don't bitch, moan and complain i am as quiet as it gets so you will have alot of peace of mind around me as well)

 

total freedom of choice of what to eat and drink (cos i ain't gonna cook)

 

a rollercoaster of great high and low emotions (because of my charming borderlining personality)

 

freedom of choice of which activities to do (because i'm a lazy homebody that doesn't care about any leisure activities other than working the remote control)

 

 

 

yeah, i'm a great catch :cool:

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phineas Established Member

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Didn't you have good chemistry with the girl you met at the concert? The one you told me about, in that one thread?

 

I don't know that I have much to offer at the moment. That's part of my problem.

 

That was over the summer. She just wanted a...thing.

 

Remember what our mothers told us... chemistry is the art of making explosions. This is its only purpose.

 

LOL!

I agree. The word "chemistry" makes me want to toss my cookies when I hear a someone use it in real life.

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sarcasm (extreme negativity and judgementalness)

 

endless deep and moving conversations (i make a great conversation partner because i like to bitch, moan and whine alot. if i don't bitch, moan and complain i am as quiet as it gets so you will have alot of peace of mind around me as well)

 

total freedom of choice of what to eat and drink (cos i ain't gonna cook)

 

a rollercoaster of great high and low emotions (because of my charming borderlining personality)

 

freedom of choice of which activities to do (because i'm a lazy homebody that doesn't care about any leisure activities other than working the remote control)

 

 

 

yeah, i'm a great catch :cool:

 

:love::love::love:

 

I think we're made for each other. I'll come over there and sweep you off your feet - and we can ride off into the sunset rolling our eyes together

 

:rolleyes::rolleyes:

 

:lmao:

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Anela Established Member

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sarcasm (extreme negativity and judgementalness)

 

endless deep and moving conversations (i make a great conversation partner because i like to bitch, moan and whine alot. if i don't bitch, moan and complain i am as quiet as it gets so you will have alot of peace of mind around me as well)

 

total freedom of choice of what to eat and drink (cos i ain't gonna cook)

 

a rollercoaster of great high and low emotions (because of my charming borderlining personality)

 

freedom of choice of which activities to do (because i'm a lazy homebody that doesn't care about any leisure activities other than working the remote control)

 

 

 

yeah, i'm a great catch :cool:

 

This made me laugh out loud. :laugh:

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Anela Established Member

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That was over the summer. She just wanted a...thing.

 

I remember you saying so, but you had chemistry - you hit it off right away.

Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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This made me laugh out loud. :laugh:

 

NN made me laught out loud too. Raw and honest and refreshing. :) Way to go NN.

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joystickd Established Member

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Still waiting for you to answr your own question JoystickD..especially since your the one that berated the board for "wanting this or that" and not thinking about what they have to offer a partner..So out with it..What does JoystickD offer to a partner?

Honestly right not I am not looking for a relationship just some sex that is all. Unlike some on here I'm honest about it. I look for

 

For that all I have to offer is penis lol.

 

Well in the context of a relationship when I reach the point that I may want one I offer

1. Intelligence - I have a BS in Computer Science and currently am a nurse.

2. Music - I can play guitar and piano so I could serenade that special someone

3.Ambition- I am working on a few things to improve my situation.

4. Honesty - I am a very honest person

5. Loyalty -when I am in a relationship I am focused on it and no one else

 

I never berated anyone about this subject. It sounds like you are a little sensitive. I figure you will over analyze and try to pick apart my things I have to offer. Logically a person wanting something would have something to offer in exchange. Hell you can't get a car for free. Oh yeah! Its ANSWER!!

Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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Honestly right not I am not looking for a relationship just some sex that is all. Unlike some on here I'm honest about it. I look for

 

For that all I have to offer is penis lol.

 

Well in the context of a relationship when I reach the point that I may want one I offer

1. Intelligence - I have a BS in Computer Science and currently am a nurse.

2. Music - I can play guitar and piano so I could serenade that special someone

3.Ambition- I am working on a few things to improve my situation.

4. Honesty - I am a very honest person

5. Loyalty -when I am in a relationship I am focused on it and no one else

 

I never berated anyone about this subject. It sounds like you are a little sensitive. I figure you will over analyze and try to pick apart my things I have to offer. Logically a person wanting something would have something to offer in exchange. Hell you can't get a car for free. Oh yeah! Its ANSWER!!

 

I am senstive. Sometimes overly so. I am not a perfect person. But that senstivity has also benefitted me. I have nothing to pick apart regarding what you have to offer. They sound like really nice things. I just wanted to hear you answer your own question..that's all.

 

And as long as you are honest with women that all you want is sex..truly honest..not just the skim the details and play it light while she's unsure of where she stands, then it's all good.

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joystickd Established Member

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I am senstive. Sometimes overly so. I am not a perfect person. But that senstivity has also benefitted me. I have nothing to pick apart regarding what you have to offer. They sound like really nice things. I just wanted to hear you answer your own question..that's all.

 

And as long as you are honest with women that all you want is sex..truly honest..not just the skim the details and play it light while she's unsure of where she stands, then it's all good.

I can't really afford to be sensitive. I look at this forum and think like damn life is too short to be whining about some of this stuff so get out there and be proactive and do something about it. My perspective changed when I realized a woman hurting me didn't compare to when I was in fear of someone killing me.

Nikki Sahagin Established Member

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Without blowing my own trumpet I think I have an amazing ability to read what a man wants sexually. I am an incredible kisser, toucher, f*****...well in my humble opinion :p

 

I am a tease and think I can keep a man on his toes.

 

I need a lot of space nowadays so the man would get his freedom too, which a lot appreciate.

 

I am passionate and kind.

 

I have other qualities, but think those are the ones that right now are the most developed - sex and kindess? Kinda sucky lol

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I think I may be very good looking.

 

Kindness.

 

I'm open.

 

I'm honest.

 

Great sex I think.

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Disenchantedly Yours Established Member

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I can't really afford to be sensitive. I look at this forum and think like damn life is too short to be whining about some of this stuff so get out there and be proactive and do something about it. My perspective changed when I realized a woman hurting me didn't compare to when I was in fear of someone killing me.

 

It's not a matter of what one can "afford". I don't consider being sensitive a qualitive term that one needs to dole out with an iron fist. Being sensitive is completely free. Like smiles. And while being over sensitive can be an issue, just as being overly lusty, angry, happy or sad can be for their own personal reasons, in more cases then not, my sensitivity as allowed me to be intutive towards others, helpful and kind. So I will take my sometimes-over-sensitive-moments while I still try to work on them to fine tune and perfect an asset I consider pretty darn good and greatful to have.

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What do you have to offer to the opposite sex?

 

 

passion

devotion

loyalty

humor

security

spontanaity

intelligence

respect

unrequited love

the best sex he's ever had!!:bunny::bunny:

 

I love you.

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I've downgraded myself to just sarcasm, and occasionally giving them food.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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I think I may be very good looking.

 

Kindness.

 

I'm open.

 

I'm honest.

 

Great sex I think.

 

:laugh: Good shout. I should have put that :D

maybealone Established Member

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I am a woman who loves sex, football, and beer.

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joystickd Established Member

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Do any of the women have a list that doesn't include sex?

snug.bunny Established Member

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Do any of the women have a list that doesn't include sex?

 

I'm sure it can be arranged.

 

:laugh:

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joystickd Established Member

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I'm sure it can be arranged.

 

:laugh:

Its funny the women that complain about being used for sex or all men want is sex and when this question is asked one of the first things these women say is sex. :lmao: Its no wonder some of them complain because it seems to be all they have to offer and its sad they are saying it.

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I'm kind hearted

I often want to do what's right for the people I love

I enjoy making those I love happy and doing special things for them

I have a keen intelligence

I have a good sense of humor

I am open to new experiences

I am extremly loyal

I tend to be a little sassy and keep a man on his toes.

 

Joystick, you didn't respond to your own question. What about you?

Damn you are one of the few women on this thread that didn't include sex on your list. Hmmmmm :love:

MooBear Established Member

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My true self and loyalty. That's all I ask for back as well

Andy_K Established Member

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Great question. Here's what I offer:

 

I'm a good looking guy in his late twenties with a stable and respectable job. I'm in excellent physical shape as I'm a very active person, and I'll continue to be so in future. I'm very disciplined and determined in this aspect of my life. I'm 5'11", so very few will dismiss me on height grounds.

 

I'm very intelligent academically, and I've got a good sense of humour. I also have a great deal of empathy, not just for those close to me but for others too. I give lifts to hitchhikers. I avoid killing spiders.

 

I make a great boyfriend. Every serious relationship I've been in, the girl used the L word early on and has hoped/believed I was 'The One'.

 

 

But, I'm not so blind as to fail to recognise my flaws. Here are some:

-My social circle isn't particularly wide

-I have a 2 year old daughter who I see regularly, naturally some will see this as undesirable baggage.

-I'm not always good at putting my best foot forward in the early stages of dating

-I am far from being rich

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joystickd Established Member

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Its funny the women that complain about being used for sex or all men want is sex and when this question is asked one of the first things these women say is sex. :lmao: Its no wonder some of them complain because it seems to be all they have to offer and its sad they are saying it.

its crazy how this is lol

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