Kevin Kristopher Posted June 20, 2004 Share Posted June 20, 2004 I'm going to initiate the a no contact with my ex-girlfriend cuz i love her to much to keep pushing an end up ruining anything we can possibly have in the future, but how should i do it? should i send her an e-mail? tell her on the phone (becuz she is in northern cali and i'm in southern cali?)? should i leave it on her voice mail? should i mail her a letter? could someone tell me how i should go about this, thanx Link to post Share on other sites
msrealdoll Posted June 20, 2004 Share Posted June 20, 2004 Personally, I would choose email. I'm better able to control my emotions that way. In a situation like that, if I were to call my voice might break, or I might stumble over my words. Then I would kick myself for losing control. You'll have better control over the situation if you write. She can't interrupt you or hurt your feelings. You can just say what needs to be said and be done with it. Link to post Share on other sites
sid3 Posted June 21, 2004 Share Posted June 21, 2004 I don't think you say anything about what you are doing. Just don't contact her. Let her be the one who calls you.Your smart enough to know not to push and make matters worse, if you tell her your intentions it because a game of who can hold out the longest. just my opinion. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamguy Posted June 21, 2004 Share Posted June 21, 2004 I'd go for Sid's advice on this one: "don't say anything about what you are doing. Just don't contact her." You don't need her permission to stop contact. Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted June 21, 2004 Share Posted June 21, 2004 Don't tell her s***. Live your life and let her live hers. "Initiate" the no contact rule by not contacting her. Link to post Share on other sites
kirkyswife Posted June 21, 2004 Share Posted June 21, 2004 Doesn't No Contact Rule - mean NO CONTACT. Don't call, don't write, BE STRONG man! Link to post Share on other sites
gigi79 Posted November 9, 2005 Share Posted November 9, 2005 if it'a a no contact thing then that's it you just stop one day and that's it. by sending a final email you are hopping she says wait no i don't want it that way, and if that's what you are hoping for then you need to send an email but say something different Link to post Share on other sites
cynicalnlove Posted November 9, 2005 Share Posted November 9, 2005 I'm going to initiate the a no contact with my ex-girlfriend cuz i love her to much to keep pushing an end up ruining anything we can possibly have in the future, but how should i do it? should i send her an e-mail? tell her on the phone (becuz she is in northern cali and i'm in southern cali?)? should i leave it on her voice mail? should i mail her a letter? could someone tell me how i should go about this, thanx I don't quite understand you. You wanted the NC because you love her, and she doesn't want to get back together? or the NC thing because you love her too much and its intense? I'm questioning this NC thing.. Link to post Share on other sites
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