bearcats_cincinnati Posted June 21, 2004 Share Posted June 21, 2004 I have a question to ask? I am having trouble with the guy I am dating, regarding our sex life. The last two times I have given him oral sex, he has gone limp after a little while. Now, we've been off and on for the past year and every single time I have done this with him, I have no problems getting him to orgasm. I feel like I have gotten worse and I feel like less of a women since the last two times have been unsuccessful. Our sex life has been getting better, and for the last month we've been closer than ever. I know this all might sound a bit trivial, but I have been extremely depressed for the last half hour. SO I figured I would ask for your advice. What do you think this means... Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted June 21, 2004 Share Posted June 21, 2004 Men are not like clockwork. Not all men can look at a naked woman and get hard instantly. For some of us it takes a lot of stimulation, physical and emotional. Additionally, if your guy is stressed out about something, or not fully into the experience if something is upsetting him, he will have erection problems sometimes. These same things can play into him losing an erection as well. Talk to him about your concerns. No one knows what is going on with your boyfriend's body better than your boyfriend. He may be upset about it, too. Link to post Share on other sites
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