daisyg61 Posted June 21, 2004 Share Posted June 21, 2004 i don't know what is wrong with me . i am 17 years old and i have never had a boyfriend. some boys ask me to go out with then but the ones that do ask me i don't like ,i just don't know why is not to say that i am pretty but some boy tell me that i am and a lot of my friends wish that they could be me i know because they tell me so all the time. i am really embrace to tell my friends that i have never had a boyfriend so they don't know almost all of then are not virgin and i am begin to think that i am the only virgin in 12 grade in don't know what is wrong with me can you please help me. and please don't make fun of me i already feel really bad Link to post Share on other sites
pretty_petal Posted June 21, 2004 Share Posted June 21, 2004 Nothings wrong with you! My best friend is 17, in 12th grade and shes never had a bf. Infact you are better off cos guys have asked you out but no one had ever done that with my friend. I know it sounds hopeless, and doesn't help you being embarrased, but you will find prince charming at some point. You seriously have the rest of your life, why try to grow up all fast now? Also... this probably sounds weird to you, but enjoy being single - seriously. Having a bf is great, but its great being single too! You are so normal!! I wouldn't worry about your friends' virginity, its not a good thing to lose it young, besides getting a bf doesn't mean you will lose it anyway. Enjoy being single!! Link to post Share on other sites
Midnight Magic Posted June 24, 2004 Share Posted June 24, 2004 You are 17, you are too young to want to have a boyfriend, you should have friends that are boys. Think about your schooling, go to University or a trade school and think about the rest of your life. You are still so young, boyfriends will come, and at the right time too. All of my friends had boyfriends when they were 15 and 16, and were raising babies by the time they were 17 and 18, no thanks, and they laughed at me. I did not have a boyfriend until I was done college at the age of 21. And I never ever regretted it. From one who has been there. Link to post Share on other sites
HoldOn Posted June 24, 2004 Share Posted June 24, 2004 Nothing's wrong with you Daisy. You just have standards! Having a BF isn't all that important. It's better for you to be single than with a jerk or something. Maybe you should do something to work on your self esteem. Is there anything at school that you can get involved with? Link to post Share on other sites
Christina03846 Posted June 24, 2004 Share Posted June 24, 2004 So guess what? Im the same way! I never had a serious boyfriend, Although I am not a virgin, I wish I could take back my first time, its not all its cracked up to be, trust me! I am 19 I graduated last year. Dont worry eeverything will fall into place. I use to do that same ****, ...stress over not having a boyfriend, but you know what as I am growing you dont need a boyfriend, most of the time they are NOTHING but trouble! You have your whole life to live dont rush it, and another thing Ive learnd dont stress over STUPID ****, cuz all it will do is bring you down! Hope this helps. Email me if you would like!! Link to post Share on other sites
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