11 days of NC, having mixed emotionso

[soupergirl]

It's been 11 days of NC and boy it's really hard. I still keep thinking and dream about him.

 

We argued last month about stupid things and he broke up with me over the phone. 2 days after the argument, we talked on the phone again and he told me he's not happy and wanted some time to think and told me things that kinda blame me for what happened.

 

I texted and called him but he igored it so I texted him one last time saying "I really hope we can talk to work things out and be in good terms" that's when I started to do NC.

 

I'm having mixed emotions, sometimes I feel happy and sometimes I get realyl depressed. This NC is no fun! but I have to keep NC but don't know if he'll get in touch with me and make things clear with me. I am so confused.

 

I need your advice and support.

[Philosoraptor]

You need to focus on yourself right now. Pay no mind to him or his life, cut him out completely... including social media and ask your friends not to mention him. Any information you get about him will lead to questions and more time spent on someone who is out of your life.

[AcaciaStrain]

As philosaraptor said - work on yourself. Please please do not contact him. He will contact you further down the line when he realises he's not been contacted. What ever you do, do not contact him. It will prevail your healing. Also, if he doesn't contact you - great! That will help the healing process.

[Philosoraptor]

He will contact you further down the line when he realises he's not been contacted.

I agree with Acacia outside of this. There is no guide to a breakup and you can't expect someone to contact you. If you expect it you will devote too much to the thought that the contact is coming. Expect nothing and live for yourself as if you will never hear from him again.