Guys: Can you detect when a woman is sexually frustrated? If so, is it unattractive?

[InJest]

So, your friend wants a GREAT man?

 

It really helps to be what you want from someone. What qualities does she have that would attract a GREAT man? I think I've asked you the same question before, and you responded with you're good at blowjobs. So, what do you do for fun? What do you do for a living? What are your life/career goals? What would make someone proud to be with you?

 

Answer the same questions for your friend too.

[FrustratedStandards]

I never said I held a 'the one for you' mindset. I have basic standards when it comes to personal character and accountability.

 

I don't believe in keeping someone around as a f-buddy or being someone's f-buddy.

 

People have lots of nice ways to spin it... they call it a fling or a FWB. But basically all you are is a hole and all they are is a walking,talking dildo... attached to real-life consequences and drama. The kind we see every day on LS. No thanks. Not to mention, that the guy for me doesn't want a woman who has FWB or flings. I don't want a man who has them either.

 

I think it is low-class, smacks of desperation, and poor discipline. But that is just me.

 

lol I don't know what kind of FWB you have seen, but from my perspective it's the contrary, less drama less problems

 

I suppose for some people it's low class, for others it's getting that sexual release without involving yourself in more drama and problems. I'm not saying relationships are bad, but they bring far more problems that a simple (and safe) FWB

 

I think that's why so many men opt for one. They are sick of the psycho female and all her drama (I don't blame them). It's different for women also, but you would be surprised as to how many needy, clingy and annoying men I know who are so desperate for a relationship.

 

I once had a guy ask me not to cheat on him after the 3rd date. Ummm....seriously?

 

Never saw or spoke to him again.

[g450]

Well all I can say is that sometimes when a woman is bitchy it is a turn on for me.

 

Some of the best sex I have ever had with my XW and current Fiancee has been when they were a little bitchy. I return the bitchyness with a small dosage of angry sex. It's hot!