weightroomninja Posted June 21, 2004 Share Posted June 21, 2004 Hey, this post revolves around my confusion with this girl. . .Katie was a girl who i enjoyed hanging out with--and gradually grew closer to. Eventually, I decided to go for a relationship beyond a friendship. I liked her a lot, so, my pursuit of her was probably pretty timid and slow. Yet, she seemed to be enjoying spending time with me, and things continued to move along. We went out on dates; things seemed good. The only problem, (I say this now, looking back), was that we were both very alike. Normally, this might seem okay, but this sort of worked against us, as we were both pretty shy--and hidden with our emotions. Thus, rarely, if ever, would we actually talk about how we felt about each other; instead, we almost took it for granted, just sort of moving along. Eventually, we get to New Year's. I end up being invited to go to the mountains with Katie and her family for a three day vacation. Things are wonderful, we spend plenty of time together, and end the final night with plenty of romance--physically and mentally. From there, things get strange. .. I dont see her, for the next week and a half. See was quite busy, but still, it was pretty strange that I didnt see her at all, barely even talked to her. This annoys me a good amount, especially after I consider how our trip together went. I finally see her the next week, but she is kinda sick, and her friend is there, so our time together doesnt amount to much. Two days later, I see her again, but she is still with her friend. . .So, we just kinda hang out. Gradually, her friend (simply another girl) tries to hang out with her more and more, making our time together less and less. Katie hangs out with this girl more than anything, I feel, because she feels sorry for her as she has few other friends. . . After a few weeks of this, altough I am annoyed by the current state of things, I dont address it. However, I begin to show it. Finally one night, showing my feelings through expression and motion gets to Katie. She becomes upset, and asks to talk, which we finally do, (after being interrupted by her friend twice). Our conversation goes badly, with the basic termination, on her part, of our relationship. I wish her goodnight and leave. The following days come an go with us not speaking to each other. This has to do with her thinking I am eternally pissed at her--in no way wanting to even look at her, let alone talk. Eventually, she realizes I'm not angry at her, and things come close to us getting back together. Sadly, things end, with us not getting back together, moreso than anything, become she becomes unsure of what she truly desires. . . The months roll by, we stop talking at all, and I eventually move on. . . Yet, Interestingly enough, recently, things have changed. Through instant messenger services, text messages etc. Katie keeps on contacting me. She says things like "Just wanted to say hi", or "hope your weekend is going well". . . Whenever I'd respond saying hi back, etc. She usually doesnt say much, maybe, perhaps because she didnt know what to say. . . The other day she said to me "hey stranger, you ever going to talk to me again? Well...just wanted to say hello and let u know that I hope your summer is going well. . .ttyl" So, this leaves me to my question. .. what do you people think she is really trying to say and do with these random hello's, especially, this newest one mean? Any questions, comments would be very helpful. Thanks. . .[/b] Link to post Share on other sites
kirkyswife Posted June 21, 2004 Share Posted June 21, 2004 Sounds to me like she's reaching out to you in her shy way - I don't know? How did you respond? Did you call? Link to post Share on other sites
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