gerty88 Posted April 29, 2012 Share Posted April 29, 2012 Ok so I met this guy online and we began texting back and forth and are now friends on facebook... This has been going on for a little less than a month. Through this I have really began to like him. My problem is 99% of the time I have to text him first and once I do that our conversations go great. I'm just stuck in the middle area of being told "if he doesn't text you first he doesn't like you/he should make you a priority" and he could be a shy guy... What makes me think he could be shy are some of the things that he has said, like I had told him he was being sweet and he's like well if you say so... Just really insecure with himself. He was also taken back that I was a cheerleader and he was in the band, etc. He even told me that I was the only cheerleader that he knew.... I haven't met him yet and have tried, but our schedules haven't worked out... At this point, I'm just confused and would like any advice. thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted April 29, 2012 Share Posted April 29, 2012 He could be shy, but if a guy was like this with me, I'd assume he wasn't interested. Guys who are interested usually make an effort to get in touch and stay in touch, in fact some may have agonised over how to achieve this. It doesn't sound to me like he's agonising over the lack of contact. One way to find out how interested he is would be to drop the contact for a while, let him initiate it next time and the time after that. If he's interested, he'll get back in touch quickly. If you hear nothing for a week or two, forget him. Link to post Share on other sites
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