Does He Likes Me?

[daisyg61]

HI WELL I LIKE THESE BOY AND I DON'T KNOW IF HE LIKES ME BACK, SOMETIMES I THINK HE DOES LIKE ME BECAUSE HE IS ALWAYS PLAYING WITH ME AND HUGGING ME, ALL MY FRIENDS SAY THEY THINK HE LIKE ME BUT I AM NOT SURE. WHEN WE DON'T SEE EACH OTHERS HE CALLS ME JUST TO TELL ME HE MISS ME AND WE SPENT HOURS JUST TALKING,PEOPLE SAY HE LIKES ME BUT WENT HE'S FRIENDS ASK HIM IF HE DOES LIKE ME HE SAY NO EVENT HIS BOTHER THINK HE LIKES ME AND HE CALLS ME SISTER IN LAW. ONE DAY WE WERE HAVING A PARTY AND WE HAD TO SLEEP IN MY COUSIN HOUSE IN THE SAME ROOM EVERY VARY WAS DICUSTIND WERE THEY WERE GOING TO SLEEP AND THEN HE TOLD US I DON'T CARE WERE I SLEEP I JUST WANT TO SLEEP NEXT TO DAISY WHICH IS ME, AN WE SLEPT TOGETHER THAT NIGHT. ONE DAY WE WERE TALKING IN THE MSN AND HE TOLD ME THAT HE WANTED TO GO OUT WITH ME AND I SAID YES THE NEXT DAY HE WAS ALL OVER ME SO WE KISS, IT WAS NOT OUR FIRST KISS BUT IT WAS THE BEST ONE BECAUSE I THUD WE WERE TOGETHER ,THAT NIGHT I DID NOT SLEEP THE NEXT DAY WAS MY COUSIN PARTY SHE MADE 15 YEARS OLD SO WE HAD A BIG PARTY THAT DAY WE ACT AS IF NOTHING HAD HAPPEN AS IF HE DID'T ASK ME FOR NOTHING WE JUST DID'T TALK ABOUT ALL THE KISSING THAT HAD HAPPEN LAST NIGHT. HE WAS NOT GOING TO SAY NOTHING ME NETHER SO SINCE THAT DAY WE STARE TO BE LIKE BEFORE JUST FRIENDS EVERYONES THINKS WE ARE MORE THAN FRIENDS BECAUSE WE CAN'T KEEP OR HAND OFF EACH OTHER . HE IS ALWAYS ASKING TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM BUT I THINK THAT HE IS PLAYING AND IF HE'S NOT I DON'T REALLY CARE BECAUSE I NOT ABOUT TO DO IT WITH HIM.I AND JUST TRYING TO UNDERSTAND AND TO GET A IDEA OF WHAT HE REALLY FEELS, TODAY HE IS GOING TO THE PARK AND HE CALLED ME TO TELL TO GO TO THE PARK SO WE CAN SEE EACH OTHER BECAUSE HE MISS ME BUT I AM NOT GOING BECAUSE I JUST WANT TO FORGET ABOUT HIM I AM GOING TO LEAVE HIM WAITING SO HE CAN FEEL LIKE I DO WHEN I DON'T SEE HIM .

CAN YOU PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK .

[cinnamonstix49]

Daisy--

 

The transition from friends to more than friends can be hard for some people.

 

I was best friends with a guy for over 6 years and we tried dating and it crushed our friendship, but once we stopped dating, we were very much the same as we were before: hugging, kissing, talking all night, etc... my situation sounds very similar to yours.

 

I think that he does like you, probably as a girlfriend, but he is afriad that he will lose you as a friend if you date. I advise to keep your heart open to him, but don't let him step on you, if he does something that upsets you... let him know. Also, I strongly advise against having sex with him, for now anyway.

 

Good luck sweetie.