Public Service announcement: Men want to have sex with women

[somedude81]

The fallowing is a public service announce brought to you by the Common Sense Association of America.

 

Men want to have sex with women. If you are an attractive woman, a very large number of men, older and younger, would like to have sex with you. Even if you aren't that attractive you will still find that a large number of men would want to have sex.

 

-I am somedude81 and I approve of this message.

[fortyninethousand322]

You know there's a certain subset of posters who won't take kindly to this thread, right?

 

I do support your dreams though.

[verhrzn]

It's so comforting to hear that men will bang anything, even if we're not hot. That makes us ugly girls feel SO much better.

 

... Seriously, what is the point of this thread? Just to brag some more about how you want to score hot chicks? Gee, I've never heard of that in any other thread on this board, ever.

[ThaWholigan]

I understand and empathize with your point

 

However, what exactly are we implying? There are many layers to this comment. Yes, I as a man want to have sex with women. Of all kinds. No secret. However, I can wait, and have waited. I can have a conversation with a girl and not assume that if she touches my arm or tilts her head sideways or some ****, she wants to sex me. I have control over my own sexuality and therefore, will express it appropriately and how I see fit.

 

That's my interpretation

[angie2443]

Some men want to do other men. Many won't touch a woman over a certain age, and many won't touch an overweight woman. Otherwise, I pretty much agree- at least from what I've seen and heard.

[Negative Nancy]

It's so comforting to hear that men will bang anything, even if we're not hot. That makes us ugly girls feel SO much better.

 

... Seriously, what is the point of this thread? Just to brag some more about how you want to score hot chicks? Gee, I've never heard of that in any other thread on this board, ever.

 

I totally agree. Yes, we know all men want is just pump and dump, tell us something new.

[fortyninethousand322]

I totally agree. Yes, we know all men want is just pump and dump, tell us something new.

 

Well I'm a little boy, so I'm not interested in pump and dump.

[verhrzn]

Now if the public service announcement was "Men want to have a committed, sexually fulfilling relationship with women" THEN I'd be more impressed.

[ThaWholigan]

Please, about 80% of the ugly/overweight girls I know are currently getting ****ed doggystyle by their boyfriends right now. They know the deal .

 

Physical attractiveness is a very subjective thing.

[fortyninethousand322]

Now if the public service announcement was "Men want to have a committed, sexually fulfilling relationship with women" THEN I'd be more impressed.

 

I think this is true too. But it's not quite as self evident. It is fairly self evident that men (like women) like having sex.

[somedude81]

You know there's a certain subset of posters who won't take kindly to this thread, right?

 

I do support your dreams though.

Who would not take kindly to it?

 

What dream by the way? My dream of spreading propaganda the truth?

It's so comforting to hear that men will bang anything, even if we're not hot. That makes us ugly girls feel SO much better.

 

... Seriously, what is the point of this thread? Just to brag some more about how you want to score hot chicks? Gee, I've never heard of that in any other thread on this board, ever.

LOL, couldn't be further from what I want to get across.

 

Some women seem very naive and don't understand that guys want to haves sex with them. That guy staring at your chest, he's not trying to determine what fabric your blouse is made out of.

I understand and empathize with your point

 

However, what exactly are we implying? There are many layers to this comment. Yes, I as a man want to have sex with women. Of all kinds. No secret.

That's my point.

 

It shouldn't be some kind of secret that men want sex. No woman should be surprised when a guy asks her out or expresses desire.

[irc333]

WEll, even married men want to have sex with their wives...so that's them WANTING to have sex with women, right?

 

 

The OP is just stating the obvious.

[ThaWholigan]

I would prefer a more intimate sexual relationship with a partner. That's the whole point.

[fortyninethousand322]

I think this is true too. But it's not quite as self evident. It is fairly self evident that men (like women) like having sex.

 

I also want to point out that this was my 2000th post. I feel like someone should bake me a cake or something as celebration.

[Negative Nancy]

I also want to point out that this was my 2000th post. I feel like someone should bake me a cake or something as celebration.

 

...or have sex with you, since we're already at the subject

[verhrzn]

LOL, couldn't be further from what I want to get across.

 

Some women seem very naive and don't understand that guys want to haves sex with them. That guy staring at your chest, he's not trying to determine what fabric your blouse is made out of.

 

That's my point.

 

It shouldn't be some kind of secret that men want sex. No woman should be surprised when a guy asks her out or expresses desire.

 

Here's a little secret: the woman ignoring you "flirting" with her? She's probably trying to give you a graceful out.

 

She doesn't want to harshly reject you. So she's ignoring your socially awkward flirting in hopes you'll get the message and stop it, without her needing to verbally slap you down.

 

She knows you want sex. Women get the constant, never-stopping message that men are interested in their bodies. Most women can't walk down the street to freaking buy some tampons without being reminded of it.

 

But that doesn't mean the woman wants to deal with it all the freaking time. Sometimes, she just freaking wants to have a drink, and a decent conversation. She doesn't want the pressure of figuring out how to tell this guy "no," especially if she fears, in her reptile brain, he might not take it well. (Become angry/defensive/insistant, etc.) Like so, so many guys in the past have.

 

Most women... know guys want to pump and dump them constantly. And most women know guys are constantly going in there in their minds when the woman is just trying to go about her daily business.

 

So how bout when you think a girl is "ignoring" or "oblivious" to your flirting, you just knock it off?

[Shaun-Dro]

I would prefer a more intimate sexual relationship with a partner. That's the whole point.

 

Isn't it your duty and responsiblity to create that self-worth so that men would want a fulfilling relationship with you? From my experiences women have not proven themselves beyond a lay and maybe a movie.

[fortyninethousand322]

...or have sex with you, since we're already at the subject

 

I don't know, I tend to get clingy and hope for a relationship after women show me attention so we might not want to go down that road.

[fortyninethousand322]

Let's be clear here. SD wants flirting and progressing towards dating and romance to be easier than it is for him. What kind of guy wants to flirt with every girl and then go to ask them out and she says "I don't see you in that way"?

 

What incentive would a guy have to flirt with women in this circumstance?

[ThaWholigan]

Isn't it your duty and responsiblity to create that self-worth so that men would want a fulfilling relationship with you? From my experiences women have not proven themselves beyond a lay and maybe a movie.

How unfortunate for you . I have much more positive feelings about women, so I will continue. Besides, the only man I will ever have sex with is me

[ThaWholigan]

Let's be clear here. SD wants flirting and progressing towards dating and romance to be easier than it is for him. What kind of guy wants to flirt with every girl and then go to ask them out and she says "I don't see you in that way"?

 

What incentive would a guy have to flirt with women in this circumstance?

To play Devil's Advocate - this is a question I want to see answered, but tends to be dodged. Just to ease my curious mind, I have my own answers.

[verhrzn]

Let's be clear here. SD wants flirting and progressing towards dating and romance to be easier than it is for him. What kind of guy wants to flirt with every girl and then go to ask them out and she says "I don't see you in that way"?

 

What incentive would a guy have to flirt with women in this circumstance?

 

For fun? For experience? To get a better understanding of what sort of women respond to him? For networking? (Girl might not dig you, but her friend sure would!)

[ThaWholigan]

For fun? For experience? To get a better understanding of what sort of women respond to him? For networking? (Girl might not dig you, but her friend sure would!)

Good answer.

[fortyninethousand322]

For fun? For experience? To get a better understanding of what sort of women respond to him? For networking? (Girl might not dig you, but her friend sure would!)

 

I agree. But at some point the fruit's already been spoiled you know?

 

I mean the way I look at is this: most people start having some kind of dating experience between 15 and 22. For the most part it's easy because it's through social networks, activities, and the like and before you start officially "dating" you kind of have a good idea that they like you. You get a little confidence, experience. You get to learn relatively easily and safely, like having training wheels.

 

If you skip this stage or miss it somehow for whatever reason it creates problems. You need that first success, only it's not easy like it would have been. It's harder, like learning how to ride a bike at 14 without any training wheels. It can be frustrating. Flirting for the sake of flirting becomes like falling off your bike for the sake of it.

 

Not too much fun.

[somedude81]

Here's a little secret: the woman ignoring you "flirting" with her? She's probably trying to give you a graceful out.

 

She doesn't want to harshly reject you. So she's ignoring your socially awkward flirting in hopes you'll get the message and stop it, without her needing to verbally slap you down.

 

She knows you want sex. Women get the constant, never-stopping message that men are interested in their bodies. Most women can't walk down the street to freaking buy some tampons without being reminded of it.

 

But that doesn't mean the woman wants to deal with it all the freaking time. Sometimes, she just freaking wants to have a drink, and a decent conversation. She doesn't want the pressure of figuring out how to tell this guy "no," especially if she fears, in her reptile brain, he might not take it well. (Become angry/defensive/insistant, etc.) Like so, so many guys in the past have.

 

Most women... know guys want to pump and dump them constantly. And most women know guys are constantly going in there in their minds when the woman is just trying to go about her daily business.

So how bout when you think a girl is "ignoring" or "oblivious" to your flirting, you just knock it off?

LOL! You've seen enough of my posts to know that I'm never the instigator when it comes to flirting.

 

I'll just assume that you are talking to "men"

For fun? For experience? To get a better understanding of what sort of women respond to him? For networking? (Girl might not dig you, but her friend sure would!)

Has never happened to me. No girl I have ever known has introduced me to or even talked about a friend I could date, get to know etc.