Public Service announcement: Men want to have sex with women

[verhrzn]

ARGH!! (Yes, I'm actually screaming at my brothers laptop monitor )

 

Hot is entirely subjective!!!

 

You know I'm willing to bet money that one day you will run into a guy who thinks you're all kinds of hot

 

The thousands of threads here by guys have demonstrated over and over that, nope, it is NOT subjective, and that hot is the number one thing they look for.

 

Can we all just agree and stop freaking making the same threads over and over?

[fortyninethousand322]

The thousands of threads here by guys have demonstrated over and over that, nope, it is NOT subjective, and that hot is the number one thing they look for.

 

Can we all just agree and stop freaking making the same threads over and over?

 

Let's assume for a second that you're right and "hot" isn't subjective. Are you saying that only "hot" people get into and maintain meaningful fulfilling relationships?

 

That doesn't make any sense...

[ThaWholigan]

The thousands of threads here by guys have demonstrated over and over that, nope, it is NOT subjective, and that hot is the number one thing they look for.

 

Can we all just agree and stop freaking making the same threads over and over?

Yes. Yes it is. Hot is subjective. There are girls who guys think are hot who I think aren't hot at all. There are girls I think are hot that guys think are completely meh. There is no universal ideal for what we have to consider is hot. It's like all the short guys saying women don't date them, when I see all kinds of short dudes ****ing all kinds of women, even tall ones.

 

I don't need to tell you that I see many-an-ugly girl who are in pretty stable relationships, fat girls in stable relationships, guys who think they are hot etc. This has been my observations. I'm sorry if this is different from what you have seen. I'm done having this conversation with you as it seems like I'm always having it. If you want to believe that nobody wants to date you and you are so ugly etc, then fine, I'm not going to change your mind. I believe you.

 

Whatever...

[verhrzn]

Let's assume for a second that you're right and "hot" isn't subjective. Are you saying that only "hot" people get into and maintain meaningful fulfilling relationships?

 

That doesn't make any sense...

 

No, hot and above-average women. Average women, I'd guess, are being settled for, because the average guys can't get the hot chicks, or can't get any hot chicks with decent personalities.

 

And hey, there's no accounting for luck. Some ugly girls get lucky, and find a guy who doesn't care about looks. But that's betting odds for you.

 

Would it just be so impossible to knock off the threads constantly emphasizing women's looks? Would that be so hard?

[somedude81]

I get bent out of shape because it's yet another thread on how men want to have sex with hot women.

No it's not.

 

You can assume whatever you want.

 

But realize that is not what this thread is about.

[Star Gazer]

I get bent out of shape because it's yet another thread on how men want to have sex with hot women. We already have the "Average" thread where we're picking apart random girls' photos. How many freaking threads do we need confirming that, yep, men like hot girls?

 

Did you read the OP?

 

I did.

 

It said that even if you're NOT attractive, tons of men will want to have sex with you.

 

But you didn't read any further than the first bolded sentence, I bet. You're literally trigger happy on this subject.

[verhrzn]

Did you read the OP?

 

I did.

 

It said that even if you're NOT attractive, tons of men will want to have sex with you.

 

But you didn't read any further than the first bolded sentence, I bet. You're literally trigger happy on this subject.

 

Yeah I did read the OP, and I still find it pretty awful, especially coming from a guy who "doesn't even count" fat people as single. They don't even exist as dateable human beings.

 

My point is, WHY do we need another thread talking about how much men wanna bang hot women? WHY does it need to be stated over and over?

[somedude81]

My point is, WHY do we need another thread talking about how much men wanna bang hot women? WHY does it need to be stated over and over?

Because it's not!

 

My God you are difficult to deal with. This why you are having trouble with men V. Not because of how ugly you think you are.

[verhrzn]

Because it's not!

 

My God you are difficult to deal with.

 

How is it not?? "Hey hot women, men wanna have sex with you! It's just what we do!" So... how is not yet another thread of talking about wanting to have sex with attractive women??

 

Why, cause I call guys out on their hypocritical BS? You won't even acknowledge overweight chicks as dateable! And I'M the difficult one??

[ThaWholigan]

How is it not?? "Hey hot women, men wanna have sex with you! It's just what we do!" So... how is not yet another thread of talking about wanting to have sex with attractive women??

 

Why, cause I call guys out on their hypocritical BS? You won't even acknowledge overweight chicks as dateable! And I'M the difficult one??

I really don't get your logic Verzhn. Are you saying that all men find the same women hot without fail?? Is that what you're saying?

[verhrzn]

I really don't get your logic Verzhn. Are you saying that all men find the same women hot without fail?? Is that what you're saying?

 

Yep, pretty much. Look at the "What's average" thread. Most of the guys moved women around by a point or two, but for the most part, hot women stayed hot, average women stayed average, ugly women stayed ugly.

[Star Gazer]

My point is, WHY do we need another thread talking about how much men wanna bang hot women? WHY does it need to be stated over and over?

 

WHY are YOU freaking out at the OP's statement that men want to have sex with women? Attractive AND unattractive women?

 

Why does that upset you so much?

 

Men want to have sex with women. They do!

[ThaWholigan]

Yep, pretty much. Look at the "What's average" thread. Most of the guys moved women around by a point or two, but for the most part, hot women stayed hot, average women stayed average, ugly women stayed ugly.

. Whatever, I don't know how you gleaned that from the average thread. Surely it's an example that one mans' hot could very much be another man's ugly.

[ThaWholigan]

WHY are YOU freaking out at the OP's statement that men want to have sex with women? Attractive AND unattractive women?

 

Why does that upset you so much?

 

Men want to have sex with women. They do!

To add to that:

 

Do I think that the kinds of girl Somedude normally finds attractive are hot? Not really. I doubt Somedude finds a girl like the one in my avi hot (if he does, good taste ).

 

It will most certainly vary between men. Just like there are women who *shock horror* don't find Brad Pitt attractive. Or Trey Songz or any of those guys. Even though they're good looking guys. Attractiveness VARIES!!

[verhrzn]

WHY are YOU freaking out at the OP's statement that men want to have sex with women? Attractive AND unattractive women?

 

Why does that upset you so much?

 

Men want to have sex with women. They do!

 

Unattractive... unless they're fat, in which case they don't count at all. And I am "freaking out" because these threads are coming up over and over... threads dedicated entirely to a woman's looks. I thought this was supposed to be a forum of support and help, not a forum where you can't turn around without bumping into a thread about some guy's "preference" of how a woman should look.

 

Or are we claiming men want to have sex with attractive women because of how sweet and sensitive she is?

[Ruby Slippers]

WHY are YOU freaking out at the OP's statement that men want to have sex with women? Attractive AND unattractive women?

 

Why does that upset you so much?

 

Men want to have sex with women. They do!

Exactly. I love getting on chat and browsing the evening's cotton candy man selection. If all I wanted was hot sex with hot guys, I'd have dates lined up for a year.

[fortyninethousand322]

Unattractive... unless they're fat, in which case they don't count at all. And I am "freaking out" because these threads are coming up over and over... threads dedicated entirely to a woman's looks. I thought this was supposed to be a forum of support and help, not a forum where you can't turn around without bumping into a thread about some guy's "preference" of how a woman should look.

 

Or are we claiming men want to have sex with attractive women because of how sweet and sensitive she is?

 

You know lots of people say things on here about how they fell in love with someone because of their personality or whatever. And yet, every single time you insist on focusing on negative things and make gross assumptions.

[verhrzn]

You know lots of people say things on here about how they fell in love with someone because of their personality or whatever. And yet, every single time you insist on focusing on negative things and make gross assumptions.

 

Because something had to make them look at that person in the first place!! Something made them go "I need to know this person better" in ORDER to fall in love. They didn't just go "Hmm, random person there, let's spend my time getting to know you."

 

I focus on the negative things because no body else will admit it. It SUCKS being an ugly woman and I am sick of people telling me otherwise, and then starting threads all about banging hot women.

[ThaWholigan]

You know lots of people say things on here about how they fell in love with someone because of their personality or whatever. And yet, every single time you insist on focusing on negative things and make gross assumptions.

Not only that, but I gotta tell you, I know so many guys who have a thing for fat girls (even I do )

[BewitchedandBothered]

The fallowing is a public service announce brought to you by the Common Sense Association of America.

 

Men want to have sex with women. If you are an attractive woman, a very large number of men, older and younger, would like to have sex with you. Even if you aren't that attractive you will still find that a large number of men would want to have sex.

 

-I am somedude81 and I approve of this message.

 

It's gotta be the curlers. They drive men insane.

[Ruby Slippers]

And I am "freaking out" because these threads are coming up over and over... threads dedicated entirely to a woman's looks.

When it comes to sex and dating, most men are primarily concerned with a woman's appearance. Not only - but primarily. That's just the way it is. You can wring your hands about this, or you can just accept it and work with what you've got - as we all have to do.

 

I'm cute but quite sexy/sensual, and I've had relationships with guys from average to blistering hot.

 

Looks are never my main selling point. The guy thinks I'm cute and sexy, then finds out I'm really smart, sweet, and interesting, too. I'm fine with that.

[verhrzn]

When it comes to sex and dating, most men are primarily concerned with a woman's appearance. Not only - but primarily. That's just the way it is. You can wring your hands about this, or you can just accept it and work with what you've got - as we all have to do.

 

I'm cute but quite sexy/sensual, and I've had relationships with guys from average to blistering hot.

 

Looks are never my main selling point. The guy thinks I'm cute and sexy, then finds out I'm really smart, sweet, and interesting, too. I'm fine with that.

 

How nice for you?

[fortyninethousand322]

Because something had to make them look at that person in the first place!! Something made them go "I need to know this person better" in ORDER to fall in love. They didn't just go "Hmm, random person there, let's spend my time getting to know you."

 

I focus on the negative things because no body else will admit it. It SUCKS being an ugly woman and I am sick of people telling me otherwise, and then starting threads all about banging hot women.

 

I've told you this story before, I fell in love with this girl back in college, like totally head over heels. Would have married her. She was not "hot" in any objective way. However, she had this personality that I can't explain. It just drove me crazy. Even now, if you'd give me the field, any woman on earth right now, or her. I'd take her. Assuming she'd have me of course.

 

Crazy? Maybe. But it's how it is.

[Disenchantedly Yours]

The fallowing is a public service announce brought to you by the Common Sense Association of America.

 

Men want to have sex with women. If you are an attractive woman, a very large number of men, older and younger, would like to have sex with you. Even if you aren't that attractive you will still find that a large number of men would want to have sex.

 

-I am somedude81 and I approve of this message.

 

I have my own public service accouncement to make...brought to you by the Common Sense Association of American Development in association with the Scientific Allocation Development Systems of Gender Relations and Biology.

 

Women want men to treat them right. Regardless of their looks. If a woman is alive and breathing, you can gaurentee that no matter her cup size or weight, she wants men to treat her with respect and not like she is a walking vagina whose worth is dependent on her looks. Even if you are not an attractive, successful man, a woman will still want you to treat her like a person. And if you pay for your date with her, you've ignited her binary biology.

 

I am the artists formly known as JS and I approve this message.

[Ruby Slippers]

How nice for you?

My point is that, like me, you're definitely at least cute, and can be sexy/sensual and have at least decent relationships. But you're standing in your own way.