BewitchedandBothered Posted May 3, 2012 Share Posted May 3, 2012 ^^^^^^blahahaha! Ya man, imagine if you did get her back. Would you really want to be banging that big ole baby body?? NO! Very unkind. Link to post Share on other sites
lalalandman Posted May 3, 2012 Share Posted May 3, 2012 I'm losing faith in men. Oh sorry I tend to forget sometimes that the girls are reading too. We have our guy talk just the same as you have your girl talk. Call it a bangkok between the fellas. No need to lose faith. I'd do my pregnant girl, don't worry. But SHE is not carrying HIS baby. So, buddy, forget her. This is your closure. I know it hurts a ton and I am truly sorry. Things happen for a reason and I'm sure one day you'll meet your baby's momma. Take your time. You'll come out of this. Link to post Share on other sites
lalalandman Posted May 3, 2012 Share Posted May 3, 2012 Btw the post i was referring to was deleted i think. Something about finding a new car. Link to post Share on other sites
LasVegasGuy Posted May 4, 2012 Share Posted May 4, 2012 Can't blame it all on the dude...She accepted the seeding, lOL Exactly, she has allowed him to spray her garden, to plant the flowers, to put sauce in her, after he put the beef in her taco. Link to post Share on other sites
Author biscwa Posted May 4, 2012 Author Share Posted May 4, 2012 I cant even begin to imagine how that feels like man..... I'm sorry to hear your going through so much sadness and pain right now. Firstly, don't blame yourself OK. You cannot control what decisions your ex makes albeit good or bad. You need to listen very carefully now. Remove yourself completely from your Ex's life. No more contacting each other, no more texting, Facebook views anything... NOTHING This is an important time in your life right now, so lets turn a negative into a positive. I'm sure you still love your Ex, and think about her every day, but that's not going to change anything right now. Firstly try and accept that she's gone, and she may never come back. That might suck now, however in time and reflection you will look back and say... I dodged a bullet. Get out of the house in the evening's and weekends. No more at home on laptop,sitting on your bed and feeling sorry for yourself. Hit the Gym, and you will start to feel better both mentally and phyiscally. If the Gym isn't your thing, then go jogging, long walks swimming....ANYTHING!!!! You need to clear your head. This is very important. Stay away from Alcohol, and try not to smoke. Get a little diary, and start writing about how your feeling, and be honest with yourself about everything. This WILL help you heal! Now, when you are ready, you really need to grab your balls, and get out and start meeting NEW Women. If your nervous,shy etc that's ok. Please feel free to ask any questions, and we will all do our best to advise. This is an Important time in your life, a wonderful time for growth and furfillness. This can be the best year of your life. I mean that. Write down a few goals for yourself, things you have always wanted to do. Once you have written these down, think about how you can achieve them. Then 1 goal at a time. If its buying a motorbike, DO IT!! Grow a beard.. DO IT! Get a 6 pack DO IT!!! Go travelling DO IT!!! Pay off your debts, DO IT!!! Your Ex is gone, and she has made her decision. Understand that it's her choice, and you cant be there anymore to lend her a hand and advise. You need to be selfish now, and look after YOURSELF! When your not emotional anymore, and you have moved on and dating a new hottie , who is wonderful and all that, then you can look back on this chapter in your life and say " Wow, i came a long way." Who knows, in the future what may happen. Focus now on yourself. Talk to your friends and family, and LISTEN to them, but most of all LISTEN to your Gut.....It's always right. Thanks GaelicSoul and everyone else giving me advice. I'm just working on some small goals right now, like forcing myself to eat three meals a day, although I can't taste anything and not feeling hungry at all. I wonder how long will this grieving/depression phase last? there are many more phases ahead I'll have to go through, it seems like eternity for now. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted May 4, 2012 Share Posted May 4, 2012 Dude, you have to realize that she made this choice. And it kinda sounds like she's not happy either. I mean, it sounds like when she told you she was pregnant, she wasn't doing cartwheels and happy about it. Lets just look at her situation. She is going to be tied to a man that she barely knows for the rest of her life. A man that at 2 months, there's no way she's in love with the guy. And all the while, losing the dude she REALLY loved through her actions. She screwed up her situation pretty badly. but, there's nothing you can do about it. If the guy ends up being a dead beat Dad, that's the man she choosen. She had everything an she threw it away. I'm sure your relationship had it's ups and downs. But, with communication, it could have worked. But she made this choice. Now, she hs to live with it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Report This User Posted May 5, 2012 Share Posted May 5, 2012 She dosnt love you. You love her but she dosnt so just let it go. Be glad that isnt your baby. You will find someone who truly loves you. Link to post Share on other sites
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