N8tivHunny Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 I want to keep the story short Okay let me tell you,(Met Jan 2010)that I've been with this dude for 1 year off & on due to my insecurities, Anyways while in the relationship we took our time to get to know each other(slow pace). Since 1 year ago he broke it off(Feb 2011), I was still in healing progress. 8 months after I mail him a letter(after the break up), telling him the feelings I still hold, he can contact me on his will to be my friend again, 2 weeks later i get an friend invite. It has been 6 months off & on talking. I am confused with him, the things he says... like this one time I mentioned about some trance songs that give me eargasms, he reply "i am an orgasm for you too" I forgot what i said but another reply was "no really....im iresistable you know this" lol which makes me O.O everytime he says stuff like that, I kinda get happy or my reaction is just blush hardcore! . I just don't know if he actually likes me again,.. I don't want to get ahead of myself because I usually do lol I am afraid to ask him questions. Usually I just tell myself to just eff it and go with my feelings, only live life once. lol xD..he's my longest relationship, and longest to get over..Oh one other thing that gets me thinking is, he knows i still "love" him, soo might be playing with that? lol. well Hope u have words to tell me. back when he friend invite me, told me he has a girlfriend, i accept that, doesn't stop me from loving him am happy just being his friend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author N8tivHunny Posted May 2, 2012 Author Share Posted May 2, 2012 lmao another thing is I might ask him if he wants to meet in person. Link to post Share on other sites
Ani Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 lmao another thing is I might ask him if he wants to meet in person. Have you guys ever skype or anything of that sort? My girlfriend and I do that. Makes mefeel close to her. It also let's you know who you're really talking to. Link to post Share on other sites
Author N8tivHunny Posted May 2, 2012 Author Share Posted May 2, 2012 Have you guys ever skype or anything of that sort? My girlfriend and I do that. Makes mefeel close to her. It also let's you know who you're really talking to. Um we haven't, I don't know how he looks. But he has seen me, because I had xbox web cam then. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 Yes, might be a good idea to actually meet him seeing as he's your partner. lmao another thing is I might ask him if he wants to meet in person. Link to post Share on other sites
Author N8tivHunny Posted May 2, 2012 Author Share Posted May 2, 2012 (edited) I wish he was my partner lol I'm confused with him, the words he says to me sometimes makes it seem like he likes me. What I've mentioned there, and am not sure if he still has this "girlfriend" he told me when we became friends again 6/7months ago. Makes me think now, when he added me back he said something I'm not quite sure of "friends for now" I think! Oh and I finally messaged him saying this "I have a question to ask you. Would you want to meet in person? Cuz I feel like meeting people. & ur first on da bucket list. We can meet in Cali somewhere near the ocean beach, I need a vacation. I dont know where & when tho but soon And you send me a picture of you dude, I dont know if u remember how i look lol! " I was trying to keep it cool.. lol! sounds funny I'm still waiting for his reply. Just hope he does..... Edited May 2, 2012 by N8tivHunny fixing Link to post Share on other sites
ThatDudeXO Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 This has to be a troll. If not, go meet someone you can actually see. Link to post Share on other sites
Ani Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 Um we haven't, I don't know how he looks. But he has seen me, because I had xbox web cam then. Try seeing him either in picture or skype before you ever meet him. Your safety is first. My long distance relationship started on ps3/a chat. In 26 days we are moving in together after 2 years of LD. Link to post Share on other sites
Author N8tivHunny Posted May 3, 2012 Author Share Posted May 3, 2012 he didnt reply to me yet when i asked him.....doesnt really reply back to my questions, i guess he isnt into me. I gotta think positive! He's thinking! Link to post Share on other sites
Author N8tivHunny Posted May 3, 2012 Author Share Posted May 3, 2012 Try seeing him either in picture or skype before you ever meet him. Your safety is first. My long distance relationship started on ps3/a chat. In 26 days we are moving in together after 2 years of LD. thats coool! xD Link to post Share on other sites
Ani Posted May 3, 2012 Share Posted May 3, 2012 thats coool! xD If he has a girlfriend, I think that means you should move on. I'm sorry if that's mean and it hurts. You seem like a very lovely, and caring person. I would recommend you to find someone that loves you back. This guy just seems to be toying with your emotions. May I ask, how old are you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author N8tivHunny Posted May 4, 2012 Author Share Posted May 4, 2012 If he has a girlfriend, I think that means you should move on. I'm sorry if that's mean and it hurts. You seem like a very lovely, and caring person. I would recommend you to find someone that loves you back. This guy just seems to be toying with your emotions. May I ask, how old are you? Thanks! I'm not sure if he still has this "Jane" of his. By all means, I am ready to move on, because I've been hanging on for a long time, and i surely see the side of him not loving me back. I will always love him no matter what, when I do find that kind of love again, but am waiting lol! I am almost 22 which is next month in June. Lol I keep telling myself this about "find someone who will love me back instead of me always being the one loving" I just want him to know this..I want to be straight forward with my feelings. Link to post Share on other sites
Author N8tivHunny Posted May 6, 2012 Author Share Posted May 6, 2012 its almost a week since Junior says anything to me.....I wonder..hmméé ima wait for abit ..damnit idk! Link to post Share on other sites
Professor X Posted May 6, 2012 Share Posted May 6, 2012 its almost a week since Junior says anything to me.....I wonder..hmméé ima wait for abit ..damnit idk! That's to long for such an offer. I mean, you offered to meet, that's kinda huge and he doesn't bother to even respect you with a quick reply? Find someone that will treat you the way you want and deserve, someone you can actually see and touch. Do yourself a favor and forget about him, cause I can tell you for certain, every person checks his email once a day and if he'd care, he'd respond within hours. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author N8tivHunny Posted May 20, 2012 Author Share Posted May 20, 2012 Yeah ur right, those times of no replying, or msging me "hi" gets me so frustrated. I have been telling myself that too, but just won't listen. -sigh- I should just leave it alone now, and just move on.... Link to post Share on other sites
Professor X Posted May 20, 2012 Share Posted May 20, 2012 Well, did anything happen in the past 2 weeks? Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted May 20, 2012 Share Posted May 20, 2012 I'm not sure how seeing a photo of him helps with safety issues. Try seeing him either in picture or skype before you ever meet him. Your safety is first. My long distance relationship started on ps3/a chat. In 26 days we are moving in together after 2 years of LD. Link to post Share on other sites
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