Professor X Posted May 4, 2012 Share Posted May 4, 2012 Doesn't matter how you eat this cake, he needs-to-break-up-with-his-gf-before-doing-anything-with-you. The one or not, 15 or 150 years of love. There's just NO reason why to cheat if he could simply go and tell his gf he's done. Also, I find it funny, and sad, that after so long, NOW you decided you got feelings for him, now that he has a GF. Jealousy much ? P.S. This is so bollywood stuff. :rolleyes: 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Helena21 Posted May 4, 2012 Author Share Posted May 4, 2012 well yeah i'm jealous since i like him...there's nothing weird about it. i always liked him as i stated, but something was holding me back. now i feel ready to try ! and of course he's not going to cheat on his girlfriend, that's not what I want either. Link to post Share on other sites
NeverDated Posted May 4, 2012 Share Posted May 4, 2012 i don't think there's another woman who he's loved for 15 years...it's too much to forget.. Thousands of forty year old women say this exact thing every year... And thousands of forty year old men say, "This doesn't mean I don't love you." Link to post Share on other sites
Author Helena21 Posted May 4, 2012 Author Share Posted May 4, 2012 40-year old people may have had many experiences and met different people that have loved for many years...when you're 22 how many could you possibly have met AND loved..? Link to post Share on other sites
NeverDated Posted May 4, 2012 Share Posted May 4, 2012 40-year old people may have had many experiences and met different people that have loved for many years...when you're 22 how many could you possibly have met AND loved..? Your definition of love is going to change in 5, 10, 20 years. Maybe it's real, but, sorry, when I hear that he's love you since he was in second grade, I read "puppy love." You're pretty dead set on what you want, anyway, so why do you keep bothering with us Negative Nancies? Do as you see fit and take your chances. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Helena21 Posted May 4, 2012 Author Share Posted May 4, 2012 I am set on what I want but that doesn't mean I'm not treasuring other opinions...that's why I came here to collet many different opinions and have every possible scenario on my mind before doing something, Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted May 4, 2012 Share Posted May 4, 2012 dog.......he's not a dog. i don't believe he would do that to his girlfriend with just anyone. Uh yes, he is a dog. If he has a gf, and is rubbing up emotionally to another girl, then he is a dog. With just anyone? Really? Thats your justification? Bah, go ahead. Defend his disrespect of this other girl. Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted May 4, 2012 Share Posted May 4, 2012 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just with you? So if you do end up winning him from her, hopefully he doesn't meet the one girl he'd to it to you with. Right now, he hasn't done anything wrong, so he's not a dog. But if he cheats on his gf with you, he's a dog. If your man was whispering sweet nothings into another woman's ear and professing his feelings for her, thats A-ok with you? Afterall, he is doing nothing wrong, right? Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted May 4, 2012 Share Posted May 4, 2012 it's a different ''love'' with someone who you layed eyes on when you were 7 and different when you were 20.. there's history Yes, history in which you didn't want to consider him in that way until he got a girlfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Helena21 Posted May 4, 2012 Author Share Posted May 4, 2012 Once again I'm saying I always found him attractive. I just didn't want a relationship with him. Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted May 4, 2012 Share Posted May 4, 2012 Once again I'm saying I always found him attractive. I just didn't want a relationship with him. So now that he has a gf, you do. Like I said, you have to decide the type of person you want to be and the type of person you want to be with. If its just fine for you to be with a guy that is disrespecting his gf with inappropriate behavior, and you don't mind being the type of person that will help betray her and hurt another person, then have at it. Link to post Share on other sites
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