Last minute advice before year ends!

[blue16]

Alright some of you may know my story in an earlier thread, about me and this born in canada brown girl at school. (and oh ya she said she is normally only into brown guys when a topic came up a few months ago). To get the point, there are only a few days of school left (schools done actually, only exams left) so i was wondering if I should say anything to her. I've had an on and off crush on her ever since the semester started, and she's been giving mixed signals, some suggesting she's interested and others saying she's not. (smiling brightly and happy to see me at the party, but seeming uninterested in talking at other times). At an after grad party at a restaurant, they had a DJ and a fairly small dance floor. The music was really great, and she was amazing on the dance floor. I didn't know she was into that kind of thing, but I really enjoyed dancing with her. All my other friends only like to dance within their own groups (in a group of girls/guys) but never really dance solo with other people. I guess they aren't interested in that, but now I know how much fun it is if they are. I'm not exactly sure what I plan to say, but basically I was just thinking of telling her how i feel/felt, and if she ever noticed i was interested in her, and ask her if she was at all interested in me. Sort of use it as a learning experience....whether she was/is interested is not the big picture, but rather use it as an example of potential relationships to get an idea.

 

So my question to girls mostly is would you find it kind of sappy/cheesy if a guy talked liked this? Said how they felt about you, and then if you didn't feel the same way......ask questions like "could u tell i was interested?" and "what do you think of me in your honest opinion?" or thigns like that.....or do they not care about/aren't interested in that? I was just wondering if this was a plausible way to approach the situation. If at all possible i would like to just hang out with her over the summer as casual friends or whatever, but i'm not even sure she is interested in that. any suggestions/advice would help, thank you.

[dawns19]

Originally posted by blue16

Alright some of you may know my story in an earlier thread, about me and this born in canada brown girl at school. (and oh ya she said she is normally only into brown guys when a topic came up a few months ago). To get the point, there are only a few days of school left (schools done actually, only exams left) so i was wondering if I should say anything to her. I've had an on and off crush on her ever since the semester started, and she's been giving mixed signals, some suggesting she's interested and others saying she's not. (smiling brightly and happy to see me at the party, but seeming uninterested in talking at other times). At an after grad party at a restaurant, they had a DJ and a fairly small dance floor. The music was really great, and she was amazing on the dance floor. I didn't know she was into that kind of thing, but I really enjoyed dancing with her. All my other friends only like to dance within their own groups (in a group of girls/guys) but never really dance solo with other people. I guess they aren't interested in that, but now I know how much fun it is if they are. I'm not exactly sure what I plan to say, but basically I was just thinking of telling her how i feel/felt, and if she ever noticed i was interested in her, and ask her if she was at all interested in me. Sort of use it as a learning experience....whether she was/is interested is not the big picture, but rather use it as an example of potential relationships to get an idea.

 

So my question to girls mostly is would you find it kind of sappy/cheesy if a guy talked liked this? Said how they felt about you, and then if you didn't feel the same way......ask questions like "could u tell i was interested?" and "what do you think of me in your honest opinion?" or thigns like that.....or do they not care about/aren't interested in that? I was just wondering if this was a plausible way to approach the situation. If at all possible i would like to just hang out with her over the summer as casual friends or whatever, but i'm not even sure she is interested in that. any suggestions/advice would help, thank you.

 

That isn't sappy persay! I've had guys ask them that and what not before. lol.. I just think that some guys knows they're doable or what not and just wants to prove it by asking questions like that. hehe..