ludovico Posted May 4, 2012 Share Posted May 4, 2012 So.... this probably wont paint me in the greatest light but here goes... About 2 years ago, after my long-term gf dumped me, I went to visit my cousin who lives a few hours away... She's a big party/club girl... in her mid-20s - I'm in my early 30's... She was determined to get me to forget about my troubles by hooking me up with any of her friends... Turns out, 4 different girl friends of hers were interested... but, at that time, I was in a terrible mental state and didn't want to do anything like that... But I have kept in sporadic contact with one of my cousin's friends... as time went on, we started to flirt back and forth and its been heavily implied that something sexual will most likely happen between us next time I visit them... A side note - we both are the same type of person where we really don't have various flings or bedhop... this is just kind of a strange situation... Anyways... I decided I wanted to go visit in June... it's been a long time since my relationship ended and I'm in a place now where I just want to have fun and enjoy life... I texted my cousin and she was excited that I was going to visit.... I texted my cousin's friend and she was excited too - said something along the lines like she really needs to cut loose... Tonight I'm on FB and my cousin's friend posted a new profile photo of her and some guy looking very... "cozy" ... shall we say LOL I couldn't help but feel a bit jealous - and also just confused... Deep down I know that there's nothing of substance between me and this girl - and we live way too far apart to explore any sort of relationship - and I didn't expect her to be single forever (i havent visited them in almost 2 years) - and I dont know if shes even dating this guy in the photo (although my guess is yes)... But now I'm just kind of thinking - should I still even go? I don't want to get there and see her and this guy all over each other because I think it might be a bit uncomfortable... And why do I even feel this way? Is it just my ego getting in the way? Should I even ask her if she's dating the guy? Or should I just be thinking of it as a fun trip with no preconceived expectations? Confused.... Link to post Share on other sites
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