AjustableTableLamp Posted May 4, 2012 Share Posted May 4, 2012 I want to ask a girl out I met Tuesday really badly but I don't know her work schedule. My best bet is going there at the exact same time I saw her working on Tuesday. Thing is, is one week too long in order to have her easily get into comfortable communication with me? (at least more comfortable than first time) Could she have possibly forgotten about me already? She showed body language that could possibly show she's attracted when I had small-talk with her. I introduced myself and everything. I'm kind of sad about this because this girl used to be a childhood friend of mine but when I broke the ice she said that she apparently doesn't remember me. I not only want to date her but I actually want to find out what she's up to.. Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted May 4, 2012 Share Posted May 4, 2012 Of course she may have forgotten about you. You don't say where she works, but if it is in a service capacity where she deals with the public, she probably has guys come up to talk to her all the time. But - if you are interested in getting to know her better, don't worry about that. Go talk to her again. If you get signals that she may be interested, ask her if she'd like to go get a cup of coffee some time. She'll either say yes or no, but either way, you'll have an answer. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AjustableTableLamp Posted May 5, 2012 Author Share Posted May 5, 2012 Of course she may have forgotten about you. You don't say where she works, but if it is in a service capacity where she deals with the public, she probably has guys come up to talk to her all the time. But - if you are interested in getting to know her better, don't worry about that. Go talk to her again. If you get signals that she may be interested, ask her if she'd like to go get a cup of coffee some time. She'll either say yes or no, but either way, you'll have an answer. But if she forgot about me then it wouldn't be as easy to start a conversation again, right? Man, I should have asked her the first time I talked to her. Yeah, well, she's a cashier. Thing is that my town had a lot of elderly people and 19 year olds that shop at the grocery store are quite rare. Meh, I don't know. Link to post Share on other sites
CC12 Posted May 5, 2012 Share Posted May 5, 2012 But if she forgot about me then it wouldn't be as easy to start a conversation again, right? She'll most likely remember the guy who said he was a childhood friend of hers. That's not something one easily forgets. Maybe you've even been on her mind a little bit, with her trying to remember you from back then. Ask her out! Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted May 5, 2012 Share Posted May 5, 2012 But if she forgot about me then it wouldn't be as easy to start a conversation again, right? Why not? "Hey, how's it going today?" She responds. You respond to what she said. It's not rocket science. Don't overthink it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AjustableTableLamp Posted May 5, 2012 Author Share Posted May 5, 2012 Why not? "Hey, how's it going today?" She responds. You respond to what she said. It's not rocket science. Don't overthink it. Well.. If I do that, will she soon remember who I am from the last talk we had? I know I overthink this too much. I'm very shy. I surprised myself when I actually had the guts to talk to her. Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted May 5, 2012 Share Posted May 5, 2012 Well.. If I do that, will she soon remember who I am from the last talk we had? I know I overthink this too much. I'm very shy. I surprised myself when I actually had the guts to talk to her. It doesn't matter if she remembers you or not. I don't know why you are hung up on that point. If you talk to her and she responds well, ask her out. Go from there. Don't worry about the what-ifs or try to analyze what you think she is thinking/feeling. Just go with it.... Link to post Share on other sites
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