TLY22 Posted May 5, 2012 Share Posted May 5, 2012 So. My dear friend is cheating on his girlfriend, who he see's himself having children with, and claims she is 'The One'. Thing is, he's cheating with the same girl, and they see each other at least once a week. He's told me about this girl, and I swear he has feelings for her, or at least something that keeps him going back. Something sparkles in his eyes when he confides to me about her.. Anyone ever cheated on The One? I just don't understand how he can be with this girl, and then go home to maintain a serious, long-term relationship? Thoughts? Experiences? Link to post Share on other sites
january2011 Posted May 7, 2012 Share Posted May 7, 2012 I think that for some people there are different 'the One's.' Sounds like your friend doesn't consider fidelity part of the deal. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted May 8, 2012 Share Posted May 8, 2012 If she is "The One" then he can tell her anything right? So has he told her he is cheating on her? If not then he is simply a lying tosser just like all the rest. Link to post Share on other sites
nofool4u Posted May 8, 2012 Share Posted May 8, 2012 Someone doesn't cheat on "The One" Simple as that. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author TLY22 Posted May 9, 2012 Author Share Posted May 9, 2012 If she is "The One" then he can tell her anything right? So has he told her he is cheating on her? If not then he is simply a lying tosser just like all the rest. No, said it wasn't worth telling her because it doesn't mean anything. You'd think it would mean something if it's once or twice a week with the same girl.. But he claims it's 'just sex'. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted May 9, 2012 Share Posted May 9, 2012 Wow, is he getting his material straight from the lying cheating bar steward handbook or something? It's like they all follow the same script. Oh it's just sex not worth telling the GF. That's on page 1 of the handbook. Really, do you think his GF would see it that way too? Do you think she would be so glib about him putting her life at risk from STDs? Do you think she would be perfectly happy if he told her "it's just sex"? Next he'll be saying he loves her but is not in love with her. That one is on page 2 of the handbook. What a load of claptrap. I have no respect for this kind of idiot. He gives all men a bad name. Tell your "friend" that he's a tit and if he doesn't stop involving you in his web of deceit and sordid affairs, you are going to tell his GF exactly what is going on. If he can lie right to the face of "The One" then doesn't it make you wonder if every word that comes out of his mouth is a lie? Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 No, said it wasn't worth telling her because it doesn't mean anything. You'd think it would mean something if it's once or twice a week with the same girl.. But he claims it's 'just sex'. Ask him if he'd be ok with "the one" having "just sex" with another guy once or twice a week. Link to post Share on other sites
Joaquin Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 So. My dear friend is cheating on his girlfriend, who he see's himself having children with, and claims she is 'The One'. Thing is, he's cheating with the same girl, and they see each other at least once a week. He's told me about this girl, and I swear he has feelings for her, or at least something that keeps him going back. Something sparkles in his eyes when he confides to me about her.. Anyone ever cheated on The One? I just don't understand how he can be with this girl, and then go home to maintain a serious, long-term relationship? Thoughts? Experiences? So, how long have you been in love with your 'dear friend'? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 So, how long have you been in love with your 'dear friend'? Oh, probably right, Joaquin. TLY22, are you the OW? If so, it sounds like it means much more to you than it does to him. Link to post Share on other sites
Joaquin Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 (edited) Oh, probably right, Joaquin. TLY22, are you the OW? If so, it sounds like it means much more to you than it does to him. "....and I swear he has feelings for her, or at least something that keeps him going back. Something sparkles in his eyes when he confides to me about her.." I mean c'mon this surely gave away that these are the ramblings of a delusional other woman... You should be ashamed... Edited May 12, 2012 by Joaquin 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author TLY22 Posted May 13, 2012 Author Share Posted May 13, 2012 "....and I swear he has feelings for her, or at least something that keeps him going back. Something sparkles in his eyes when he confides to me about her.." I mean c'mon this surely gave away that these are the ramblings of a delusional other woman... You should be ashamed... No, I'm not the OW. Ramblings, sure. But OW, no. He's a good friend of mine, and talks to me about it, that's all. But thanks for your fantastic advice Joaquin; please note the sarcasm. YOU should be ashamed. Link to post Share on other sites
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