Author firehawk_1 Posted May 7, 2012 Author Share Posted May 7, 2012 I think some people have missed the point completely here and have thought of things which are not even true nor come into the equation. but thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
ladyabstrused Posted May 7, 2012 Share Posted May 7, 2012 thanks. i understand. I am fine with everything else, career/professional and pride but... what can I say? there is no excuse for the other party to treat someone bad at all you know? its like you are meant to be perfect and you should "just know" - but reality is, it isnt like that. i dunno. of course I will feel down, because I am a human with real feelings and not fake optimism or fake feelings. i ask for a simple thing. i get negitive/bad back constantly. it is no wonder there are far too many unhappy people who cant find something. i try, you dont know how much and what I do in that i think after years of being let down/rejected etc... i do have the basic right of feeling the way I do. Well sure, you have every right to feel unhappy. Just don't let it ruin your life. Because you know, you are the only person who can change your life, because you are the only one who can have whatever perspective in life be it positive or negative. I understand you're not up for being too chirpy and all. Just be careful not to let it drown you because you deserve better than this and letting your unhappiness rule your life is unjust. When you're ready to start being positive, you'll see some changes I bet. One thing at a time though. You know what's works when you're feeling down? Rocking out. Like blasting music real loud or take walks for long distances at a time. Things that you don't normally do. I do that. Makes my being feel better. As for site suggestions....well I don't know. I met mine at a forum. Sometimes meeting people at forums could have good outcomes cos people at (good) forums are usually helpful and nice and some are single. Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted May 7, 2012 Share Posted May 7, 2012 Firehawk, surely there are plenty of events in London where you can meet people from your own ethnic background. Various festivals and fairs. You might have better luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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