Poll: When would you end your long distance relationship?

[sillychicaindeed]

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When would you End your long distnace relationship?

 

 

I feel like ending mine... I'm not going to be seeing him very much in the nex t few months, and then i'm leaving for london for 4 months, and won't see him at all. I'm the kind of person that needs to see someone every so often. And since the beginning of the relationship it's been 2-3 weeks till I see him again. We just hit 9 months...

 

and now i don't know. he's been so less communicative, and i'm less of a priority...

 

whens it "over" in your book even if you love him?

 

 

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[Fayebelle]

If you are not getting the love and support you need. It's over.

[sillychicaindeed]

it's intermittant....

 

when he's on the ball, he's got me a million percent...

 

the difference when he's not on the ball is so huge

[dyermaker]

You're thinking of ending the relationship because he's non-communicative, but you're not talking to him about it? You don't see the irony in that?

 

Talk to him, I've had the same discussion. If you can't talk about something like this, you don't belong in a relationship with him.

[amerikajin]

It depends on how much you like him and what lies in store for you guys in the future.

 

The problem with long-distance relationships is that someone usually has to make such a large sacrifice at the start of the relationship just to keep the relationship going. It's not impossible, but it's potentially burdensome, particularly if the person who's sacrificing realizes later that they sacrificed more than what they had originally intended. That's saying nothing of the distance and the time in between visits. It's painful sometimes. I've done one LDR, but never again. That said, if you really know in your heart that you want to be with this guy, then don't give up until you are sure that there's no future together.

[sillychicaindeed]

In reference to me talking to him about it ...

 

of course i have, although I guess I didn't mention it in the original post...

 

I've reminded him to try to call me, told him that I wished he write more... and increased how much I called/wrote him to see if he would try and reciprocate...

 

I know he's busy, but I think at this point we're serious enough that I feel like he should make time for me....

[amerikajin]

When I was in my LDR with my ex, we spoke to each other every night. Yeah, the phone bills were pretty expensive at first, but we got a long-distance plan through AT&T which cut our rate down to 5 cents a minute or something like that.

 

Even if you don't call, there's always e-mail or IM. If two people are interested, they'll find a way to communicate.