timewilltell Posted June 22, 2004 Share Posted June 22, 2004 It had been a year since my fiancee and I broke up (we were together for 2.5 yrs), various circumstances with work, and a period of long distance led to the breakup, needless to say it was more her decision then mine. At the time, I was extremely hurt and upset, I did what many do, call, try to reconcile, send flowers, email, etc. As everyone knows that never works. So after a couple of months I moved on. I dated several women and enjoyed my time being single. I still missed my ex deeply though. Well, nearly a year later I decided to call her on her birthday, ( she had done the same a few months beforehand ), we ended up talking awhile and she asked me out, I had recently broke it off with the last girl I was dating, so I agreed. Well, we got together for coffee, had a good time, she was still single, so we decided to hang out a few more times after that. Before we knew it we were back in each others arms and are now dating again. Looking back on the situation it was a blessing we broke off the marriage, because I just can't see myself married right now. It took a year of waiting and basically no contact, but now where back together and better for it. Just remember if it's meant to be, it'll happen, but you gotta be patient and live your life, it's not worth dwelling on it. Link to post Share on other sites
sid3 Posted June 22, 2004 Share Posted June 22, 2004 Nice to see an example of "if it's ment to be" good luck to you! Link to post Share on other sites
I'mRickJames Posted June 22, 2004 Share Posted June 22, 2004 Your story is exactly what I'm hoping for bro. Nice to see it CAN work out in the end Link to post Share on other sites
sara1974 Posted June 22, 2004 Share Posted June 22, 2004 Im glad you guys got back together and everything worked out. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Katlady Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 Congratulations and good luck! Thank you for the positive post. It adds to my hope that my fiance will come back to me. Link to post Share on other sites
cword Posted June 24, 2004 Share Posted June 24, 2004 I am glad everything worked out for you 2, but my situation is a little more complicated. We have a child together so the contact is a must. I know I can keep all conversation short, but will that work? I'm impatient and I hope and pray everyday that this rebound relationship doesn't work out. It's not only for the the love that I have for him, but for our daughters sake. She wants daddy 24/7 and I do too -wink- Link to post Share on other sites
quyster Posted June 30, 2004 Share Posted June 30, 2004 At least I see a positive ending story here.... It boosted me some hope to live my life happier.... Anyways, congratulations and hope you guys will last this time... Link to post Share on other sites
sally1530 Posted June 30, 2004 Share Posted June 30, 2004 Great to hear a good outcome! I just hope the same could happen for me and my ex-finacee... we will see its been 2.5 months.... no contact really. Im moving forward with my life... and if he comes back great..if not then it wasnt meant to be. Link to post Share on other sites
Starting Over Posted June 30, 2004 Share Posted June 30, 2004 Thanks for your post....I'm going through a similar situation...my boyfriend is now ignoring me. I've done the thing calling, emailing, etc. Basically, I've been hoping that something I do or don't do will change his mind. Now I'm moving on. What else is there to do? I hope some time apart might heal, and bring about a second chance. In the meantime, I'm living my life and trying to keep it fulfilled. On my own. Link to post Share on other sites
sally1530 Posted June 30, 2004 Share Posted June 30, 2004 Yeah, Im moving on with my life , each day I let go just a bit more. It takes time. I guess if he would have told me the reasons why he bailed...it would be more clear to me...dont know why he is so mad , this was his decision not mine. It sucks that he cant even return a email anymore. I have given up that he will ever contact me and have to realize he is probably not that caring of a person if he doesnt even want to know how im doing.... oh, well I guess time will only tell what in my future lies... I know I will love again!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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