Shane88 Posted May 8, 2012 Share Posted May 8, 2012 Hi, I've been a regular at my gym for about 3-4 months now, and just about 3 weeks ago this one girl started coming often, usualy with her friend. I feel like she is into me or finds me attractive because I can tell when shes looking at me from far distances etc.. and whenever Im working out somewhere in the gym, she and her friend will sort of come and sit beside me and not actually do anything except small chit chat or random stretching. Basically she doesnt actually "workout" at the gym, it's almost like she's there for the social scene etc.. I'm actually there to workout, as I'm on a deadline for a sport this summer, but after seeing her over and over I've started to invest some interest in her, and I'll admit she's pretty attractive. Last night I was working out in the fitness studio, and she actually was alone (the perfect time to talk to her) she came into the studio sat down (was just me and her alone in the studio) but before I could say anything her phone rang and she was forced to leave. That really sucked because she's almost always with her friend, but that time she was alone. So again today she and her friend came by, did the same "routine" and as expected came into the studio. I felt like I had to say something and just get it out there, because these girls seem to giving off vibes that they want me to say something. So I said "Hey did you go to "My highschool name" and her friend actually answers "Me? No I didn't go sorry". And im like "Oh alright, I thought you looked familiar." So I asked a question that was ment for the Girl I like, but her FRIEND!!! decides to answer and completely derails everything and me being the idiot that I am froze and didn't bother saying something like " Nono I ment the other girl". It's also interesting to note that my friends friend knows her and he told me that she did actually go to my highschool though she graduated 3 years after me. So like when she hears me ask this to her friend, why woudlnt she say something like "Oh but I did". I mean I just brought up her highschool, but she remains silent! Nothing happened after that, and they left. I was pretty frustrated because I know this girls likes me, and its almost like shes waiting for me to say something. I finally man up, and her friend thinks im speaking to her... What do I do now? Link to post Share on other sites
NateC Posted May 9, 2012 Share Posted May 9, 2012 Be patient. You'll have another opportunity. Keep trying! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Shane88 Posted May 9, 2012 Author Share Posted May 9, 2012 So today I was with my buddies at the gym, and I asked one my friends to keep a count on how many times she looks at me over the span of the night. He actually also noticed that she looked my way several times. Apparently we have quite a few mutual friends because one of her friends was talking to one of my friends, and it was the perfect opportunity to talk to her, but I didn't want to do in front of like 5-6 people all in a big crowd. I'm going to hope I see her at some point alone again, and then try and spark up a convo. Link to post Share on other sites
WonderKid Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Hope you get her! Link to post Share on other sites
taylorback Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 Just ask her out! Introduce yourself, and say you'd like to hang out with her sometime. No reason to be shy about it. If she likes you as much as you think she does, she'll say yes, and if she says no then that's the end of it and you can move on to the next one. Link to post Share on other sites
lynbetz Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 You can get any girl you want! Just read up on it! Link to post Share on other sites
Thirdwill Posted May 18, 2012 Share Posted May 18, 2012 Good luck Shane!!! I also workout at a gym and the other day caught a female checking me out as I used the elliptical. So in the mirror I smiled back. LOL! She got caught! You should have see the look on her face 3 times this happend and 3 times I smiled back until she left!! Hey maybe next time right ?? Link to post Share on other sites
jackswwagar Posted May 30, 2012 Share Posted May 30, 2012 That's right, you should have looked at her face while talking to her but don't worry you will get another chance and this time be more brave, look at her face and say everything you want. Link to post Share on other sites
BBD4U Posted May 31, 2012 Share Posted May 31, 2012 ah the classic girl at the gym stuff...just keep trying and hopefully itll all work out if not check out this website Free Dating Sites UK | Top online free dating sites coupons, reviews and ratings by the real users, its a free dating site that actually worked out for me, can be awkward at first but then becomes like any other relationship good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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