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DY, I'm not going to derail this thread further for your porn agenda, I'm sorry. If I can't convince you that consensual porn is not the spawn of the devil and BDSM is not borne out of misogyny, I certainly can't convince you of people's rights to roleplay whatever they want within the boundaries of legality and consensuality. So... I'm not even going to try.

 

East Asian fashion is girlish, though --- women wear clothes that are reminiscent of little girls. Why is that fashion choice bothersome? Why is Western fashion preferable? In many parts of Asia, it wouldn't be seen as "dressing like a little girl." That's the crux of the problem with this discussion, the Western-centric attitude.

 

Granted, anyone who wants to bang a 12 year old is messed up, but some of the additional comments levied are just reflecting no understanding of the international community, Eastern fashion, etc.

 

This, pretty much.

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Having a petite frame and being attracted to children are two differen't things Elswyth. Having a petite frame, and desiring your legal age woman dress up like a little girl are again, two seperate things.

 

If a woman is of legal age, and dressing up to protray herself as a little girl, she is partaking in something that suggests pedophila. I understand that this is un-pc to say in a time where anything sexual in our culture is justified. But the reality is, participating in any kind of play that is about underage kids doesn't seem something that a healthy culture would do. The fact that the Lolita thing is huge in Japan doesn't exactly signify for me that that makes Japan a "healthy culture". Infact, from my undestanding, Japan comes out with some pretty vile and digusting things sexually. The reason girls over 18 love derssing up like that and their men enjoy it, is most likely, in my opinion, connected to an over fetishizing of youth in their culture. I do not think it's done for pure fun and light heartedness and joy and health. I think it's done because culture has so fetishized age, that getting older is demonized. Especially for women. And again, in my opinion, this is unhealthy. I think a healthy culture would celebrate every stage of life and encourage those entering that stage to grow and embrace it. There was a time to play with dolls when I was a little girl. There was a time for me to be a teenager. And now there is a time for me to be an adult. Not an adult "play acting" at former stages of ages in the same of "sexual freedom". That's not sexual freedom. That's sexual bondage. Life is suppose to be fluid. You are suppose to grown and change with life. Sexuality completely included in that. But pretending you are from a stage in life from years ago seems backwards and twisted and actually seems liek a form of bondage to conform women and degrade them for getting older. If age was more celebrate in cculture, women and men would be free to be who they were at their age and not have to pretend or play-act at being any other age. But that is not the culture we live in. Youth is over fetishized. Little girls are over sexualized, then criticised for getting full grown adult woman bodies.

 

And sorry, I do not defend anyone's right to their own sexual preferences simply because something makes someone horny and feel good. I think there are many things in current culture that are popular that are actually quite harmful and unhealthy to our real and true sexuality. I do not think wearing school girl skirts and holding dolls is a healthy sexuality. And I am actually disturbed by the amount of full grown men that seem to fetishize such things. Even in Western culture the whole school girl thing is completely fetishized.

 

I think there are some tough questions people have to ask themselves that they don't want to when it comes to this kind of stuff. Questions they don't want to face because of what they fear it says about them. such as over infactuations with girls that just turned 18 or wear little girl outfits.

 

I fear that this stuff is only going to, and has spread. Child porn is a multi-billion dollar industry thanks to the internet. I think more people have become more exposed to it and that issue is only growing. But no one wants to talk about that either because it would have to mean admitting to something no one wants to think exists. Yet, almost everyday in the news you hear of more respectful people in the community that are downloading child porn. If you think things like legal girls dressing up like little girls doesn't play it's part in that, you're fooling yourself.

 

Cheerleader outfits have been for sale at sex-shops since the 70's.

Putting a stamp of 'child-porn' on anyone who likes a petite girl is ... beyond retarded. Do you actually think these things through ?

I'd like you to meet some of my ex-college friends [girls] who because of socio-economic issues are somewhat smaller [under 5 feet].

And, let's not forget you are branding the entire nation of North Koreea as pedophiles.

 

And just because you find some of the stuff coming out of Japan as 'disgusting' doesn't mean the rest of the world shares your opinion on the matter.

It is you're opinion and that's about it.

 

PS: Some of the stuff coming out of Japan is pretty nice, and yes ... i do mean the porn/sexual stuff.

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ThaWholigan

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Yet, almost everyday in the news you hear of more respectful people in the community that are downloading child porn. If you think things like legal girls dressing up like little girls doesn't play it's part in that, you're fooling yourself.

 

My Religious Studies teacher at my Roman Catholic boys school was arrested for having 900 child porn images on his computer. He was a very weird man. We used to cuss him and call him Sally :lmao:. He would sometimes wait outside the classroom at the beginning of the lesson and just look into the classroom :eek:.

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Ahh, you like calves I see :D. Yes, when a woman has great legs, it's usually because her thighs complement her calves. I admit, I like the thigh part better. The part just before it conjoins to the buttock especially.

 

One of the things I love about a girl is nice lips. I love a girl with full lips always. I've always liked long curly hair too.

 

You mean the muscle in the back part of the thigh? Yes, it's one of those places where some toned muscle does wonders!

In terms of legs in general, i tend to not like supermodel legs precisely because the upper part is not that wide. I hear everyone talking about Heidi klum's, Adriana Lima's or Jennifer aniston's legs, for example. Not that they're bad, but they're not exactly my thing. They're too skinny, imo.

Tina Turner's, Jennifer Lopez's and even Beyoncé's (in spite of the calves thing) are much "better" in my opinion. That comercial that Charlize Theron did for some perfume where she is walking through a corridor... Dear God!

 

As for facial beauty (and "general hotness"):

Monica bellucci, Paz Vega, Kate Beckinsale. And less well-known: Nia long and Gabrielle Union. The only thing with Kate Beckinsale is that she is petit, which is something that i don't like, quite on the contrary.

 

As for hair, i'm not very picky. It just has to be "dense". Curly is amazing, but smooth is also as good. Depends on how it complements the face.

Finally, and this is something that is blatantly obvious in what i have been writing here, Dark > blonde most definetly (i'm never sure how to write this word).

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KathyM

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I have a thing for handsome faces. My ideal in that category is a young Richard Gere, Tom Cruise, and Brad Pitt. Masculine handsome faces. The rest is just frosting to me. Men that are 5'8" or above would be my preference. I also like well-defined muscles.

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MrNate 2.0

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You women disgust me.

 

These are not average men. And now I feel insecure.

 

:rolleyes: ( <---- negative nancy eye roll)

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here we go. all about superficiality and trying to aim for something that does not exist, nor will you get. *sigh*

 

this is the problem today.

 

ok, here is one: chelsea charms

 

Seriously? Chelsea Charms. No wonder you have problems dating.

 

By the way, the guy with the white hair in that article is my type! British, too!

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ThaWholigan

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Seriously? Chelsea Charms. No wonder you have problems dating.

 

By the way, the guy with the white hair in that article is my type! British, too!

:laugh: You like Schofield :D

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ThaWholigan

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I'm married, but my husband won't let me post pics of him, so I will add my next favorite body. I like broad shoulders and big neck muscles.

 

minxeats: Ray at Chazz

THat's almost exactly the kind of build I'm going for at 6 foot 2

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MrNate 2.0

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How come when I made my post with my ideal women, I got a moderation notice? :laugh: They have on clothes. Jeez.

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ThaWholigan

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How come when I made my post with my ideal women, I got a moderation notice? :laugh: They have on clothes. Jeez.

:laugh: you should see the ones I posted. Definitely NSFW :D

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Quiet Storm

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For me itd be a girl of Megan Fox's proportions. I tend to be most drawn to thin women with plump little booties and small perky breasts.

 

You think Megan Fox's butt is plump? I just don't see it. Look at her side view, it's a pancake. My husband says she suffers from nasatall.

 

 

http://bretcontreras.files.wordpress.com/2010/07/megan-fox-butt.jpg

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KathyM

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Seriously? Chelsea Charms. No wonder you have problems dating.

 

By the way, the guy with the white hair in that article is my type! British, too!

 

Eww. Chelsea Charms is just gross. Cowlike. Are men really attracted to that? :p

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In real life I have a variety of types. Like someone said, as long as I can laugh, I'll fall for you.

 

But in fantasy land here are some of my dream men:

 

Justin Timberlake

http://www.gq.com/images/slideshows/mens/standalone/gq/feature/030109/justin-timberlake/00001f.jpg

 

Ryan Kwanten (Jason Stackhouse)

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_p_zx8Ukw9NM/THQLIadiBuI/AAAAAAAADPM/df0utfryhvQ/s1600/ryan-kwanten-shirtless-gq-02.jpg

 

Jason Segel

http://www.usmagazine.com/uploads/assets/article_photos/jason-segel-matilda-467.jpg

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