Patty Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 I've admitted before how attracted I am to this new guy at my work.I thought he was Indian but he is Spanish.I still am attracted to him and smile at him everytime he walks my direction.I also want to talk to him.What can I say? I smile at him alot cause I like him.Is that chasing him though? I want to get to know him.Im afraid he will think Im chasing him though.I do fantasize about having him for a bf too.I feel guilty about it.I took some pictures of him last week.One with me and him and one of him by himself.I also took pictures of the other workers so he didnt think I was up to something. One time my bf asked me once if it was ok if he could go out to dinner with this girl.So should I feel guilty about this? How can I talk to this guy,so that he dont get the impressrion im chasing him? Is smiling ok? I do want to talk to him.He seems really shy and doesnt know what to say to me.He speaks Spanish and I dont know if he would understand me if I start talking to him.Im trying to learn Spanish.I only know a few words. What do I say to him and how do I get him to talk to me? He seems kind of shy.I smile at him and tempted to say something.I asked my friend how his name is prounounced and I was practicing saying it.So tommorow should I try saying hi to him?How can I get to know him,so that he dont think Im chasing him? Patty Link to post Share on other sites
Stone Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 smiling is just friendly, you should never feel guilty about smiling Try to tell him that you are trying to learn how to speak spanish, ask him if he can help you learn and go from there..............Good Luck Heather Link to post Share on other sites
Author Patty Posted June 23, 2004 Author Share Posted June 23, 2004 smiling is just friendly, you should never feel guilty about smiling Try to tell him that you are trying to learn how to speak spanish, ask him if he can help you learn and go from there..............Good Luck Heather Good idea! Thanks.Ill try that. Patty Link to post Share on other sites
Baubles Posted June 24, 2004 Share Posted June 24, 2004 I agree...smiling is nice, not wrong at all. Go for saying you always wanted to learn spanish and if he could teach you a few words... Besides, nothing like a crush to make the work day more fun! Now, if you were to ummm...spank him when he walked by- now THAT would be wrong. Just remember, if you don't immediately get the reaction from him you want - don't freak out, don't get mad, just give it time...he may not be used to you talking so much Link to post Share on other sites
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