ridinbikes247 Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 Well, 16 weeks of being separated and it's finally getting easier - I left her for being dis respectful and very rude. I'm not sure where me and my Ex wife stand right now, but it isnt good I dont think. We have not seen each other in over a month face to face - We exchange our son through daycare. She does not want to speak or see me in person, and I finally have learned to leave her alone and let her go.... . The last time I talked to her was 3 weeks ago when she called to accuse me of having sex with a 16 year old, and we are almost 27. After she accused me of something that stupid it has gotten ten times easier I go to work and do not look at my phone every 5 minutes hoping she calls. I do not have the urge to call her anymore. I havent drove by her house in 3 weeks, I dont drink everynight. I dont ask my friends to spy on her facebook. Actually, I here things about her now and do not even care to call and confront her. I remeber the first month or so I would call her everyday to wish her a good day. I would think of reasons just to call her. Now, I could careless. It's time to just let things run theier course and leave the ball in her court. I was hoping she would have regretted it by now though...... Link to post Share on other sites
january2011 Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 It's been four months. If you're doing this to punish her in the hopes that she'll come running back to you and change the behaviour that lead to your leaving her, perhaps it's time to accept that it's not working. I would just focus on your son and finances, ignoring any other topics. If you're separating with the aim to eventually divorce rather than reconcile, perhaps it's also worth talking to a lawyer about your next steps. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ridinbikes247 Posted May 10, 2012 Author Share Posted May 10, 2012 She is doing this to me I chose to leave and after I left she said we are done and she dosent want nothing to do with me - I called her alot during the first few months trying to work things out and she told me to stop bugging her and we are over - I just accepted the fact that SHE wants this - Not me - separation papers were filed a few weeks after i left - she had them ready to go Link to post Share on other sites
january2011 Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 Okay, focus on your son and finances. If this is how she wants to play it, I think you're not left with much choice other than to keep rebuilding your life separately. Link to post Share on other sites
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