julmar131 Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 So heres the deal. My EX and I dated for a year. During that time He, his best friend and I were inseparable. His best friend and I continued to be extremely close even though my boyfriend started to treat me terribly. Once we broke up my BF went away for a month. During this month he has been flirting with me online, and telling me that he wants to know who Im with and he wants to be BEST FRIENDS when he gets home. But he also says that it would kill him to know that was "with" anyone else. Then he proceeds to EMAIL his best friend, who I have been hanging out with, and say "If you want to date her go for it. You guys are practically married anyways." So WHY IS HE ACTING JEALOUS WHEN HE TALKS TO ME, BUT GOES AND TELLS HIS BEST FRIEND THAT IS "COOL" IF WE HOOK UP? Link to post Share on other sites
neptoon Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 He's acting this way because he's insecure about the nature of your relationship with his best friend. He wants to see if you would date his best friend if you were single. I'd say he's testing you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author julmar131 Posted June 24, 2004 Author Share Posted June 24, 2004 update/..... My Ex admitted to me how jealous he is of the situation. but hes like "Im not boyfriend material right now" and then he talks about what it would be like if we messed around but were still best friends. And I said "no way". and hes gives me crap about me being the only support hes ever had, but that he needs to straighten himself out before he can come back to me. why cant people just be honest? ugh Link to post Share on other sites
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