Gentlegirl2 Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 Not so long ago, xmm contacted me and we met once and made some kind of peace. I have not heard from him for about 2 months until today. He sent me an email saying how much he still loves me and how he wants to resume the A. In the last part of his email he states very seriously that he is working hard in all ways at making things right with his wife. I almost fell off my chair laughing. How on earth could I have taken such a clown seriously? I did for almost 3 years. Please read this and either have a good laugh or maybe learn something from it. GG 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Summer Breeze Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 I want to resume the A and I'm working hard in all ways to make things right with my W. Huh. I'll go with a laugh on that one GG! Not so long ago, xmm contacted me and we met once and made some kind of peace. I have not heard from him for about 2 months until today. He sent me an email saying how much he still loves me and how he wants to resume the A. In the last part of his email he states very seriously that he is working hard in all ways at making things right with his wife. I almost fell off my chair laughing. How on earth could I have taken such a clown seriously? I did for almost 3 years. Please read this and either have a good laugh or maybe learn something from it. GG Link to post Share on other sites
woinlove Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 I want to resume the A and I'm working hard in all ways to make things right with my W. :laugh: Is this his idea of a pickup line? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 There's Oxymoron and then there's just plain moron - he supplies both 3 Link to post Share on other sites
PeineDeCoeur Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 Wow! Wonder if he actually read it objectively before sending??? What is up with these guys! Link to post Share on other sites
skylarblue Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 He sent me an email saying how much he still loves me… I got to this part and thought “boy, I wish xMM would say that to me” …and how he wants to resume the A. It’d be nice to know that he still cared, missed, and wanted me. In the last part of his email he states very seriously that he is working hard in all ways at making things right with his wife. Then I read this part and lol. It really snapped my thinking back to reality. Thanks for the chuckle and a lit bit of fortitude. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SunsetRed Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 I too know how wonderful it is to be OVER an xMM and to realize what an arse he really is. I'm glad to be free from my xMM as well. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
LadyLost Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 Gentlegirl, I have a question for you.. Would you take him back if he hadn't gone on to talk about making it right for his wife? How did hearing that he still loved you make you feel? LL Link to post Share on other sites
Summer Breeze Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 Wow! Wonder if he actually read it objectively before sending??? What is up with these guys! Maybe since he's working so hard to make things right he asked his W to help out. I know it's stupid but that pretty much goes along with everything he said!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
jphcbpa Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 soooo your sayin theres a chance??? Link to post Share on other sites
UpwardForward Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 Not so long ago, xmm contacted me and we met once and made some kind of peace. I have not heard from him for about 2 months until today. He sent me an email saying how much he still loves me and how he wants to resume the A. In the last part of his email he states very seriously that he is working hard in all ways at making things right with his wife. I almost fell off my chair laughing. How on earth could I have taken such a clown seriously? I did for almost 3 years. Please read this and either have a good laugh or maybe learn something from it. GG I'm not laughing .. And I think there's a lot that be said for warning others about the potential of time loss - of years out of their lives. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gentlegirl2 Posted May 10, 2012 Author Share Posted May 10, 2012 Gentlegirl, I have a question for you.. Would you take him back if he hadn't gone on to talk about making it right for his wife? How did hearing that he still loved you make you feel? LL No I wouldn't dream of taking him back. I had a three year period of temporary insanity. I have been out of that state now for 18 months and have never been tempted to go back there again. His email demonstrated what a wanker he really is and probably always was. Hearing he still loves doesn't make me feel anything really. It was just words on a screen. GG 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Emme Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 SMH.... As much as I want to laugh... I feel so sorry for him. You really want to laugh but you want to cry. He is not putting in the effort to really work on his marriage and in the end it's his family that's going to suffer. The attachment has not been severed. GG get a new e-mail account. Link to post Share on other sites
Emme Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 I don't feel sorry for him. If I were GG I'd be pissed at his stupidity in thinking she might fall for a bs line like that. That's the hilarious part. The sad part is that this man is still playing games and not moving forward. In the end it's not going to be GG that will lose a spouse or have their child harbor hate towards them. She is only losing him. He is losing his family with every contact he makes. That's the sad part for me. If GG was DONE with him then BE DONE. It's that simple. I am not sure if this is a work email he has but whatever the case close all the doors. I don't want to say help the man... but in a sense help him. In the end she's helping herself to be rid of him. Make mailer demon his new best friend if you are truly finished. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 Not so long ago, xmm contacted me and we met once and made some kind of peace. I have not heard from him for about 2 months until today. He sent me an email saying how much he still loves me and how he wants to resume the A. In the last part of his email he states very seriously that he is working hard in all ways at making things right with his wife. I almost fell off my chair laughing. How on earth could I have taken such a clown seriously? I did for almost 3 years. Please read this and either have a good laugh or maybe learn something from it. GG Part of me wants to tell you to email him back and ask if he hit his head and is now retarded? I am laughing and completely stunned that he's still the exact same person as he was before, yet he 'claims' to be working hard on fixing his marriage. Pathetic, sad and funny all at the same time. I hope you ignored his email though! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Stellar Wench Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 Not so long ago, xmm contacted me and we met once and made some kind of peace. I have not heard from him for about 2 months until today. He sent me an email saying how much he still loves me and how he wants to resume the A. In the last part of his email he states very seriously that he is working hard in all ways at making things right with his wife. I almost fell off my chair laughing. How on earth could I have taken such a clown seriously? I did for almost 3 years. Please read this and either have a good laugh or maybe learn something from it. GGI don't read any humor in this; it shows how little he thinks of you if he thinks you deserve such low regard. Typical selfish MM behaviour. They wouldn't disrespect a woman they really loved by expecting them to accept such poor treatment. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 10, 2012 Share Posted May 10, 2012 I don't read any humor in this; it shows how little he thinks of you if he thinks you deserve such low regard. Typical selfish MM behaviour. They wouldn't disrespect a woman they really loved by expecting them to accept such poor treatment. Then many MM think very little of their OW since the behaviour shown above is displayed so often, yet so many believe the opposite. And this is actually happening when the A is still on going. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gentlegirl2 Posted May 11, 2012 Author Share Posted May 11, 2012 This man doesn't respect or love anybody. He is disrespecting both his wife and me. He did it before because I accepted it. I acknowledge that Now I wouldn't. I do think it is funny that he could write something so dumb and expect to be taken seriously. OxyMORONIC is correct. GG 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Summer Breeze Posted May 11, 2012 Share Posted May 11, 2012 I don't read any humor in this; it shows how little he thinks of you if he thinks you deserve such low regard. Typical selfish MM behaviour. They wouldn't disrespect a woman they really loved by expecting them to accept such poor treatment. I have to say I thought it was hilarious because he is so self obsessed he probably doesn't even see what's wrong with what he's said. You could probably recite his words back to him and he still wouldn't get it. As for your last sentence they treat their BS that way every second of an A. They don't expect them to accept it because they don't expect to get caught. Once they are caught most do seem to expect it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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