cometgoddess Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 A guy I used to date used told me once "you wouldn't believe how many little girls have asked to see my penis.. and how many teenage girls have asked to sleep with me (it might be true.. I know of 2 that are very interested in him right now)." He's 32.. I'm 35. He also used to tell me instances of people telling him how young tells him he looks for his age.. people have told me the same in his company sometimes. He goes to music events with 17-25 year olds.. but has friends older than him self too. He also told me he if he got married he wouldn't want his wife to ever get pregnant bcuz she'd ruin her body... and how younger people's bodies are so much nicer... Any opinions? Link to post Share on other sites
Matilda Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 Do you think he's a pedophile? Link to post Share on other sites
Author cometgoddess Posted June 23, 2004 Author Share Posted June 23, 2004 I wonder. One time he told me he was thinking of moving to CA. I asked if he would miss his friends and family.. he said he would miss <name> & <name>.. 2 kids of his friends. He told me he was camping with some friends who had kids and the little boy told him he peed in the water when he was swimming. My ex whispered back to him "I do that sometimes too".. then the kid tried to grab his genitalia.. but (supposedly) the mother was right there and said "leave him alone" (this is always what "happens" in his stories (i.e., the mother steps in in a mild almost humorous way). He asked me if hearing that freaked me out. I didn't know how to respond and said no mostly bcuz he's told me stories as such before. He also mentioned how the little girl was pole dancing for him.. "she's 5 years old and she knows how to pole dance!" he said. Another time he told me he was at a party and a little girl "seduced" him to her tent downstairs and asked him to kiss her. He told me "yeah.. like I'm going to kiss her with 30 adults and her father upstairs! But she knew exactly what she was doing.. she planned it all out!" I mentioned something about pedophilia to him once to see his reaction.. he said "I've never done that in case you were wondering (i.e., he told me he's had 3ways, homeosexual experiences...). He hinted another time on the subject that it all depends if a person means harm or not. He also said he probably wouldn't be the best parent bcuz if he caught his kid having sex instead of scolding he would ask if they did this or that.... He has very liberal views on sexuality and life in general. He always keeps abreast of cutting edge social and sexual trends/movements. He told me when we met he was 90% heterosexual 10% bisexual, but he wasn't looking for a boyfriend.. but who knows about the future. I don't know what to think. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyrannaste Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 A guy I used to date Glad to know you are not dating him anymore. He sounds kind of sick and scary. I'd have the same concerns about him that you have. Link to post Share on other sites
msrealdoll Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 This is incredibly disturbing to me. It sounds to me like he's a pedophile. This part-Another time he told me he was at a party and a little girl "seduced" him to her tent downstairs and asked him to kiss her. He told me "yeah.. like I'm going to kiss her with 30 adults and her father upstairs! But she knew exactly what she was doing.. she planned it all out!" makes it sound like he is placing the responsibility of his behavior on the child. That's just sick. If I knew this guy, it would be hard for me not to warn all the parents of the kids he's around. Maybe I'm a wee bit to sensitive about it. Better safe than sorry, though. Link to post Share on other sites
miz_barby Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 Totally child abuser! Sick Sick Sick Sick!!!!! Good thing you're not with him I would warn those people via email or annomyous phone call or something poor kids don't deserve that! Sick Sick man! Link to post Share on other sites
Girlie Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 Ugh. It sounds like if he hasn't already abused a child, he's heading in that direction. You said in regards to pedophilia that he hinted that it depends on whether the person means harm or not. That in itself is a disturbing comment. Thank god you are not with him anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 It sounds like he's a sick loser who likes to make up stories. He likes the attention from you, not from the children. I don't think he's a menace to society, but he's creepy as hell. Link to post Share on other sites
Girlie Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 """It sounds like he's a sick loser who likes to make up stories. He likes the attention from you, not from the children. """" That could be the case, too. Either way, he's, as you said, CREEPY. Link to post Share on other sites
Dulce_Angel_Whispers Posted June 23, 2004 Share Posted June 23, 2004 I don't think he necessarily was making up stories I think he is sick and wants help but doesn't want to come out and confess! He probably puts it in the light that the kids "started" it or were just playing around but I bet that sick f*ck fantasizes about those innocent precious children! They need to cut of his pecker then he wouldn't have to worry about someone asking him to "touch it" sick bastard! Link to post Share on other sites
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