NYCAdriana Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 Hi guys! I'm new here and first of all, wanted to introduce myself. I'm NYCAdriana Secondly, I have a slight dilemma in which your opinions would be most appreciated. Here we go....My ex-husband and I separated last year and our divorce finally came through earlier this year. Ok, fine. I decided that I could not be his friend because it would have been too painful for me. He was not happy about this and he tried several times to get me to change my mind, but no dice. I wasn't having any of it. Fast forward to this year. I have a public twitter account. And only recently just out of curiosity decided to check out his instagram account. Just to what he was up to. Lo and behold, not only has he been reading my twitter account but he has also been copying my activities. For example, if I posted that I purchased a certain wine, he would do that same thing on the same day. If I mentioned wanting to purchase some plants, he went and purchased some as well. The list went on and on. Basically, he has copied all my activities and I have to admit that I find that rather creepy. I can understand there being residual feelings and difficulties in letting go, but to snoop around AND copy what your ex is doing comes across as the actions of a rather unstable person, no? After all, he is not a child. He is a middle-aged man. Well, he hasn't been harassing me, so I'm thankful for that but I am just confused by his actions. He claims to be in a new relationship and that's great but like I said...what's the deal with the creepy copying? Any thoughts would be most appreciated.... Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 The same could be of your creepy stalking of what hes doing. But I digress. He's chasing you through others. Hes trying to find the comfort he once had with you while with others. I believe the movie chasing Amy is a good example of this. So he might do things such as go to sporting events or restaurants with the new person that he did with you while normal people would avoid those places trying to find the happiness he once had going to those places with you. (ill tell you a little secret, he wont find it). Link to post Share on other sites
BewitchedandBothered Posted May 12, 2012 Share Posted May 12, 2012 You wouldn't have known if you didn't snoop on him;) Can you set your Twitter to private or block him? Link to post Share on other sites
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