d'Arthez Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 I think a bigger issue would be why a grown man thinks it's ok to work a PART TIME job and 'fish' the rest of the time while his girlfriend has more drive and ambition than he does. I am not into fishing, but if I had a paranoid girlfriend, I'd definitely want some downtime. Dealing with accusations that are not based in reality is emotionally draining. You have no idea how to make things better, and you know that every perceived mistake (the mistake can be real or imagined) can lead to a thorough cross-examination. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TLY22 Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 I doubt I will stay with him. If he can't even be honest about how many hours he's working then what else does he lie about? And if he's lying about being at work then what is he doing? It's totally obvious to me that he's out f*cking someone else. Then why are you on here? You've obviously decided already that he's cheating, regardless. You shouldn't let past relationships ruin the present ones. Without even sitting down and talking it out, you have decided he's cheating and that's that. You even said before you accuse him of cheating quite frequently. He probably just wants to get away from you! To be honest, you seem a bit overbearing, and should probably deal with your own issues before getting into a relationship you can't handle. At least give the guy a chance to explain himself. Link to post Share on other sites
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