heartless2012 Posted May 16, 2012 Share Posted May 16, 2012 So I`m trying to recover from this horrible exp. from this girl I was kind of seeing, which left me hurt real bad. While this is happening, I see this other girl I used to mess with, she just wanted to be fwb, but i wanted more, things ended badly and we stop talking. Well This new hurt got me thinking, that the feelings I had are for this other girl is gone. It has been a year, but every time we see each other we don`t talk and it`s just weird, still i catch her watching me as I walk by . I Think she wants to talk to me again, but she thinks my feelings are still hurt. I Want us to be cool again, even if we don`t chill, I want to let her know that i have no negtive feelings. The thing is rite now my self esteem is real low, I don`t think I could just go up and talk to her. What should I do, should I send a msg on fb or try getting a friend to talk to her or just leave it alone? I want to get my friend back Link to post Share on other sites
january2011 Posted May 16, 2012 Share Posted May 16, 2012 Your self-esteem is low and you're still in pain. I wouldn't advise getting in contact again until you're much stronger and less needy. Link to post Share on other sites
turnera Posted May 16, 2012 Share Posted May 16, 2012 If you are wanting to be just a friend with her, tell her so. Send a message "Hi, I see you from time to time and I miss our friendship. I don't have the nerve to just say hi to you, but I wanted you to know that I miss you." Leave it at that; if she wants to be friends again, you've given her the window. Link to post Share on other sites
lynbetz Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 work on you self esteem and get this person back! Link to post Share on other sites
taylorback Posted May 17, 2012 Share Posted May 17, 2012 You don't need her man. I say forget about it and work on making yourself happy in a more dependable way. Link to post Share on other sites
Author heartless2012 Posted May 17, 2012 Author Share Posted May 17, 2012 Yeah I think Im going to hold off for a bit, even at a friends level, I don't think I can handle a rejecting at this time. After thinking about it, I need to tell her that things are cool but not when Im still heart broken over someone else Link to post Share on other sites
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