kgal Posted June 24, 2004 Share Posted June 24, 2004 I miss my ex............my friend. I told him I needed time from talking since it was too hard for me to talk to him since I still love him alot....and it just hurt to talk to him and then not see or call him on the phone. I asked to see him like twice in the past 2 mos..but he said "no" each time...so I just got frustrated and I needed a break I guess. So...now it's been almost a week and I just miss him. He hasn't emailed back after I wrote telling him I needed time....even after I wrote again telling him about something good that happened to me w/my career. I wondered if he was just angry...like why would I just tell him something like I need a break from the online chatting all of a sudden. ???? But ... I know that was the right thing to do so I dont regret it....its just that now I miss em. I know we'll talk again and I do want the time I need to fully heal and get back on my feet again. I just had to vent and get it out. Link to post Share on other sites
lnichols Posted June 24, 2004 Share Posted June 24, 2004 Did he break up with you or did you break up with him? I'm confused. It sounds to me like you told him you needed time away from him but now you regret and he is not talking to you. Give him some time and see if he contacts you. He may be just doing what you asked him to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kgal Posted June 24, 2004 Author Share Posted June 24, 2004 Well we broke up about 5 mos ago. I initiated it...and he agreed it was best...but then I changed my mind and I wanted to not break up. (I guess I was hoping he would say "No...lets not break up, because I love you." but he didn't and he just went with it.) So then we just said, "Okay...we're gonna just be friends again then"...because we wanted to stay a part of each other's lives. So it was getting hard to just "be friends" because even with just being friends.....it wasn't the same as it was before when we were just friends...and this was before we started getting romantic and dating and stuff. Anyways.....it was really hard to talk to him online and then I'd just end up getting all emotional and I couldn't take the stress from that. I told him that I needed time from talking online....but I stressed just messenger for now....I wanted to keep the email option open just so he didn't feel like I wanted absolute no contact whatsoever. I'm sure he'll contact me...it's just that I miss him because I really still care alot for him and even 5 mos. down the road.....he was my first love and I really felt something between us. I hope I cleared it up a little...sry to be a bit confusing in my initial post. Thanks for your reply! Link to post Share on other sites
breezy Posted June 24, 2004 Share Posted June 24, 2004 Come on girl, its normal to be confused, angry, upset and emotional. You are going though allot and anytime you lose someome its hard to deal with. I think the hardest part is trying to get use to being alone and getting into your own routine without him. Try please to stay busy. That is what I am doing and it does really help. Sometimes the longer you can be apart and without contact, the more you can realize maybe it was not meant to be like you thought. I do not agree with you trying to be "friends". I think eventually one day its possible but right now you are dealing with too much to have to try and be friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kgal Posted June 24, 2004 Author Share Posted June 24, 2004 Hey....I think so too, Breezy. TY for your reply. I think maybe just more time...more space is best. I know deep down that things are going to be okay and I trust God to help me through this time. I realize it's normal to still miss him....afterall..he was a big part of my life for 8 yrs and now I don't see or speak to him. I know in time it will get better. Link to post Share on other sites
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