gamekey01 Posted June 24, 2004 Share Posted June 24, 2004 Ok I know lots of people have already ask help about approaching a girl. Hopefully this one is different. Here's the scenario. There is this girl in my college that I am attracted to. I don't know if she is interrested or not but I think she is a little attracted to me too. All I really want is just to talk to her. She might have a bf or dating someone. I just see her checking me out from time to time but she really doesn't do anything so that it would be easy for me to approach her. Here's the problem. I only see her once a week in the fast food joint/cafeteria due to her schedule and mine. She is never alone. She always has friends. Not just ordinary friends. Her friends differ in ages but they are all girls. Some look 40ish and some look 20ish. It intimidates me a little I guess. I have like a 30 minute window. They eat, talk and go back to class. Normally when I approach a girl, she is always alone. I would say hi, then how's it going, then compliment, then just talk, then ask her name then talk some more. Now I have no idea how to talk to a girl when she is with a group. I don't think I will find a situation where she won't be in a group. So the question is how would you talk to a girl when she is in a group. Forget about the option where I will ask her to step aside and talk to me. That particular scenario would be like this: I approach her in front of her friends, say Hi, how's it going, compliment, then can I talk to you for a second privately. All of her friends would be looking at us and I'm afraid she won't leave. Even if she leaves and go to a side with me, the atmosphere would be serious and full of tension. So it is not an option. My only option is talk to her in front of her friends unless you guys can think of something different. So I'm thinking I'll approach her when she only has 1 or 2 friends. Then talk to her. Is that a good idea? How would I deal with her friends? Should I just ignore them or talk to them. I really don't care about her classmates or friends. I just want to talk to her and ask what is her name. How do you people think I should handle this? Any advise? Link to post Share on other sites
danny8630 Posted June 24, 2004 Share Posted June 24, 2004 Damn dude! sounds like you have a slight predicament lol. Well check it out, her being with her friends all the time WILL make it 100% more difficult for her to even talk to you normally. Girls obviously will put on an act in front of their friends. Perhaps you should just speak a few words of humor to her until you can catch her when there are less friends around. Or....if you're shameless and crazy you can go up to her table and invite her and her friends to a party or something. GOod luck cuzzy Link to post Share on other sites
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